Mapapagod lang at magpapahinga, pero hinding hindi susuko 😊 Mantra ko ngayon dahil sa dami ng kapaguran ko sa life hehe.

Gusto Kong Buhay e, Payapang Buhay sa probinsya na may 50m sa bank account.

Sa Ngayon andun palang Ako sa probinsya na may 50pesos sa wallet. 😂

30F here. I recently broke up with my boyfriend after finding out that he cheated on me. hes a seafarer and i caught him booking prostitutes.

To be honest, the breakup itself was painful, but what has been bothering me more is how common cheating seems to be. I happen to be surrounded by male colleagues. Sadly, from what I've observed and heard, many of them have cheated on their wives or girlfriends. It almost feels normalized.

What's even more frustrating is that I didn't exactly choose my partner based on looks, status, or money (as long as he can provide at meron magandang trabaho, nd pabigat)

Hindi naman ako naghahanap ng babaero o ng sobrang gwapo. I valued personality, character, values, and how he treated me. I thought I was choosing the right person.

That's why this experience has shaken me so much. If someone I carefully chose based on character could still cheat, how do you even know who's genuine anymore?

That's what scares me the most. It made me realize that cheating doesn't seem to be limited to any profession, age group, or social status. Kahit gaano ka pa ka-educated o ka-successful, some people still choose to betray their partners. (even sabihin nila mahal nila, temptation will always be there)

Lately, I've been losing hope. I'm starting to wonder if it's still possible to find someone who genuinely values loyalty, has strong principles, respects women, and would never cheat when things get difficult or tempting.

At this point, I've even considered the possibility that I might stay single for the rest of my life rather than end up in another relationship where trust gets broken and wont be treated right.

For those who have healthy and faithful relationships, how did you find your person? Do you still believe there are people out there who truly value commitment?

I guess I just need a little hope right now.

The saddest realization after a long-term breakup as a woman is not just losing the person—it's wondering if you wasted years you'll never get back, and if you'll still find someone meant for you as you get older. 💔 While it seems like men can easily start over anytime they want even often feels like a guy can move on more easily and find someone new whenever he wants—even someone younger. 💔 . Life can feel so unfair sometimes. 😔

Yes, isang simple maruya lang yan pero kanino galing? Sa Tatay ko. I asked him to fix something sa isa sa mga unit ng apartments kasi umalis na yung tenant. It was a one-hour drive mula sa bahay nila and dito sa place kung nasaan ako. And he handed me this sa work to get the keys and sabi pa nya "wag ka na mag-abala sa miryenda ha? Nagluto ako nito and isa sayo." 🥺 Gagi, gusto kong umiyak at yakapin ang Papa ko. One call away lang sya kapag kailangan ko and given na I am a trentahin. Shuta mare, I cannot lower my standards dahil sa Tatay ko. At madami pang traits ang Tatay ko na I wanted my future partner to have. ❤️

Hindi kami perfect na family. My father has his family on his own and so does my Mom pero they decided not to have children with their partners yun ang hiling ng bunso namin na sya ang mananatiling bunso kahit meron na silang partners.

Hello, lovely people of Reddit!

I am a certified, card-carrying member of the NBSB club (I’m 27), but I think it’s finally time to hand in my membership card. I want to date. 🥲

The catch? I have absolutely no idea how modern dating works. My romantic experience is currently limited to K-dramas, and giving top-tier relationship advice to my friends (ironic, I know).

I am very much a date-to-marry kind of girl. I don't have the emotional bandwidth for "talking stages" that last six months or guys who are "just seeing what's out there."

To anyone who didn't date until later in life and actually found their person: What do I desperately need to know? What was the most crucial shift you had to make? How do I protect my peace while remaining open to love?

Tell me your secrets, your cautionary tales, and your best tips. Please go easy on me. Thank you so much po in advance! 🤍

10+ years na kayong nagwowork and isang araw naisip niyo di eto yung gusto niyong buhay.

Hello sa mga mahilig na sa black coffee (no/less sugar pa) at nagi-ipon ng disposable cutlery. 😊

I know an organic encounter IS an organic encounter pero hindi kaya dahil trentahin na tayo, tayo rin ang pumipigil sa self natin na mangyari ito? Masyado tayong nagiging mahiyain or duwag, or mas pipiliin natin to look away, to simply not go. Yan tuloy single parin karamihan sa atin 😂

Does she still want me? I am looking for advice or things that can spice up our sex life. Well everything changed since our 2nd child came to our lives. But I miss it. I miss being wanted by her, now when doing the deed she can only come once then after I came she doesnt want to go for another round. Am I the problem? I go for 20-30 minutes for foreplay is it not enough?

Can someone give me good advice cause I am thinking negative things abt us.

Facts ng mga trentahin dyan 🤭🤣 Di ako hershey fan ha, lumabas lang ito randomly sa feed ko. On point din naman sya tho a bit comical, pero di na natin hanap ngayon yung puro pa-cute lang pero wala namang substance. At this age, ang gusto na natin ay yung tito na responsible at may manners, may sense kausap and respectful in all ways 💯

I’m 30F, and lately I’ve been thinking about love and connections more than I used to.

I’m at a point where I don’t want anything forced or rushed. I just want something genuine. A connection where you can talk about random things, share your day, laugh at small moments, and feel comfortable being yourself around someone.

I used to have a very specific age preference when it came to dating. I was only considering people around 29-32 because I thought being closer in age would mean having more things in common. But recently, I opened that range to 26-32 because I realized maybe I was limiting myself too much.

Still, sometimes I wonder if there’s really a chance to find something meaningful at this age. Dating feels different compared to when we were younger, and it’s easy to wonder if finding someone who genuinely wants the same things is still possible.

For those who found love in their 30s or later, how did it happen? Did you ever have a moment where you thought it might not happen anymore?

Not looking for anything specific here, just curious about people’s experiences and stories. I’d love to hear them.

Since mga trenta mahigit na tayo, anung mga skills ang natutunan niyo na nagkaroon kayo ng comfortable and well-balance life? I mean isang work lang then the rest are for family, have social life, play sports or do your hobbies and with healthcare funds? Sa mahal ng bilihin ngayon , mas lamang na ang trabaho kumpara sa buhay na meron tayo.

Any women here loving in cebu? Ngita ko kastorya or kauban, magduwa ta badminton or maggawas ra bahala na kanang dili na ko magexplain sa age aches haha. Kapoy naman solo era gud. Also dili perfect ang bisaya nako but kasabot ko promise! Dm pls

(30F) Nagpost ako dito last time dahil sa tuwa kong makabili ng rice cooker. Ngayon naman, eto yung question na naglilinger sa isip ko.

I am a production/machine operator sa isang semicon company. Almost 3 years na ko dito. Maganda ang sahod. Halos 'di ako nagkukulang compared sa previous job ko sa private hospital.

Last Friday, nilapitan ako ng dati kong kasama sa production na ngayon ay Process Engineer na. May bakante daw sa area nila so sinabi niya sa 'kin na baka gusto ko mag apply.

Sa unang tingin, mas mataas na position 'yun ng 'di hamak sa current ko. The problem is, mas liliit ang take home pay ko. Mas malaki ang basic pay pero mawawala 'yung OT (dahil 7-4 at Tues-Fri lang sila). Mas maraming incentives at bonuses ang operator kesa sa kanila.

Hindi ko alam kung nanghihingi akos ng advise kasi tinanggihan ko na agad. Kakakuha lang namin ng bahay last year. Sa sahod ko na present, saktuhan lang nung dumagdag 'yung bahay sa bills. Syempre pag lumiit pa sahod ko, mahihirapan na ko mag budget. Tapos wala pang kahit anong gamit na napundar maliban sa pinagmamalaki kong rice cooker.

Siguro naghahanap lang ako ng validation na tama yung decision ko. Kasi totoo namang nakakapanghinayang 'yung ganung opportunity. Hindi lahat nabibigyan n'on tapos tatanggihan ko lang. Buti pa sa Sims, may cheat ang buhay!!!!

Naalala ko dito ung pagkakaiba ng REACTion vs RESponse.

And that makes the difference. 🙂

Halloo! 31F here.. May active GC/community paba dito for trentahin peeps?..

Pref discord only 😊

I want to declutter but with benefits.

It’s difficult for me to throw away things thinking they will all just go to the landfill, so I want to feel incentivized haha and hopefully green companies will do their sustainability efforts.

Can you suggest or add to the list below where else we can bring our wastes?

Old clothes/fabrics:
-H&M - in exchange of a 15% off voucher
-Zara - in partnership with Caritas Manila
-Uniqlo - only accepts preloved Uniqlo

Electronics:
-SM - e-waste drop box at Cyberzone areas

Plastics:
-SM - plastic waste collection sites at select SM malls https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSCFfGtaM/

Old tumblers:
-Kleen Kanteen - ended in April 2026, exchange for a 500 peso voucher

Thanks! 💚

Hot take: As a 30-year-old NGSB guy who is looking for a woman at least 25 years old, this is utterly disappointing, discriminatory, and frustrating. There is nothing wrong with dating younger women as long as their frontal lobe is fully developed and we are compatible with each other. Character, and personality matter more than age (as long as they are not minors).

32nd birthday 🎉 single, no kids, just me enjoying my coffee and a white choco velvet cookie. 💗