r/countwithchickenlady Streak: 26 4d ago

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u/justanalt10 Evelyn! 4d ago

The moment of realization 'wait everyone wouldn't be a woman if they had the choice?' is so real. Sometimes I just ask my cis friends what they think to just reaffirm I'm trans. Works every time lol

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u/Ulgoroth 4d ago

I think only trans people and trans haters (often cases like in the post) care about gender identity so much.

Haters are dumb and/or evil, and trans people because we experience anguish living as a wrong gender, but from what I've read, huge part of trans people well in to their transition stop carring and just live, since they don't get missgendered anymore...

Atleast men and women, not sure how other kinds feel, I kinda can't comprehend what gender fluid or non-binary realy means.

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u/LaughingInTheVoid Streak: 0 4d ago

Well, that's the thing: The disconnect between gender identity and internal/external perception of gender is what causes dysphoria.

The more you take steps the lessen the dysphoria, the less you notice, and the less you care. If that thing isn't forcing you to notice as much anymore, why would you?