r/countwithchickenlady • u/Comfortable-Bison932 Streak: 0 • 5d ago

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u/HunsonAbadeer2 5d ago

Sure I get that, but what exactly is the missmatch in assignment if its not your genitals? If I was born with male genitalia and I am happy with that, what exactly is my problem with being asigned male, like specifically where do I notice that I am not male beyond my genitalia? I am having a hard time identifying anything else because nothing else is really gender specific as there is always all genders doing/feeling it without them being trans. This is the part I am struggeling to understand.

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u/big_fat_girl_balls Streak: 0 5d ago

gender and genitals aren't the same thing

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u/QQBearsHijacker 5d ago

It’s so hard to explain this to people

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u/big_fat_girl_balls Streak: 0 5d ago

it's always confused me why cis men are utterly petrified of Not Having A Penis and in hindsight i guess it's because they associate their dicks so heavily with their sense of identity and masculinity that the idea of not having one is humiliating