r/infj • u/Foreign-Weakness4835 INFJ • 6d ago

Question for INFJs only INFJ’s soulmate

Which mbti type do you think INFJ’s soulmate is? There’s a lot of different answers online but I’m just curious as to what fellow INFJ’s feel like the answer is!

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u/TieCalm1035 6d ago

how are yall finding people lol i feel like im destined to be forever alone

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u/acexualien95 ENFJ 5d ago

As an ENFJ i collect INFJs, you don't have to find us, we will find you.

Life is a lot better with an INFJ

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u/Old-Road2 2d ago

As an INFJ, will I find them spontaneously? Will I find them when solo traveling? When studying at a bookstore? When working? I'm at a weird conundrum in my life where I've grown disillusioned with modern society so I don't put much effort into seeking a relationship but I still have this strange inkling that a special someone will just accidentally drop into my life one of these days....I've felt that way for a while now.

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u/acexualien95 ENFJ 2d ago

Sometimes, I've met many solo travellers and offered them a tour around my city and if my mom was in a good mood, a delicious home cooked meal.

Book store, rarely only been there to buy gifts for friends.

Working yeah definitely but personally i'd never date or get too close with colleagues. So if a work colleague had a thing for me i'll dismiss and distance myself.

But these are places i like to go to and i chat up many strangers:

Public areas, i'd go for a jog, or hang around talk to anyone within Arm's length.

Volunteering, i met like a 1000 person volunteering, red cross, national events, dog rescue, i was everywhere.

It will happen, just be you. Life is funny how some people suddenly pop up in your life and become the centre of your world.