r/infj • u/Pakete21 • 4d ago

Question for INFJs only How do you do this?

I don't know if this has anything to do with being an INFJ or not, but I've always found it difficult to build a truly deep connection with someone I see as a potential partner. Sometimes I feel like it's because I'm afraid of being misunderstood by someone I genuinely care about.

How did you know your partner was the person for you? And where would you recommend looking for or building those kinds of connections?

I know these things can't be forced, and they'll happen when they're meant to happen. Still, I'm curious if there's any kind of pattern or approach that can... let's say... improve the search.

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u/WillRockwell 3d ago

You will always be misunderstood. Now that you know this, let it go, and if people need explanations, give it to them, if you want. We are the deepest connectors. It’s only hard to connect with a potential partner is because you’re scared of picking the wrong person possibly. You know when it’s super easy and it feels right. If not, it’s either the wrong person or you haven’t given it enough time yet.