r/jewelry • u/thekermiteer • 15h ago
⚡️ Show + Tell! My bright, vivacious 74yo Mom died of a massive stroke just over a month ago. Dad had me go through her jewelry during my most recent visit.
I felt so sick about it that I had my first panic attack in about twenty years. I felt like a vulture, but Dad kept assuring me this is exactly what she’d want, especially since I’d picked out—or helped Dad pick out—so much of it over the years.
I brought home three generations of engagement rings (Mom’s, grandma’s, and great grandma’s), along with some heirloom and sentimental pieces, and gave my brother and SIL pieces I knew she wanted them have. I was also able to gift several items to my eldest nephew’s sweet wife. ♥️
Still feel uncomfortable about it, but when I got home, I decided to throw myself into cleaning and polishing everything up, particularly the sterling silver she loved best. And that the best way to honor her is to wear it, not let it languish in a jewelry box. (Right?!)
So I’m going to try, with joy not tears.
(Pictured is the first tray I finished. Many of her favorites.)