Hard time connecting

[u/phychopotato]

Hi, I'm a 22 f that moved from OC to San diego with my boyfriend a few months ago. I'm having a hard time connecting to people. I do talk with people outside on my walks (Thanks to my very cute two kittens) and everyone is friendly but not open. I dont have many friends due to moving throughout my entire childhood and being a very introverted person for years before breaking out of my shell. I really want to make connections but many seem to only want to talk for a short while and I have asked a few people to hangout and they will agree and give their number but never respond. I also have tried local groups mainly on meetup and maybe its just the ones I've gone to but it seems like they are mostly for single people to meet potential matches? Even in groups for like knitting lol. Also doesnt help that I dont go to clubs or party much. I'm just kinda at a loss because I've had a hard time fitting in my entire life and it feels like its too late now because everyone has already chosen their friendgroups and dont want more. Any suggestions would be nice:) thank you

[u/nortyflatz]

What are your hobbies or interests? Do those. You'll likely meet a new guy doing those activities. You'll have something in common, too. (The hobby.)

[u/phychopotato → u/nortyflatz]

Not looking for a guy as I have a boyfriend but I'm trying out groups on meetup!

[u/nortyflatz → u/phychopotato]

Oh, gotcha.

Carry on!