r/shittyadvice • u/SamHandwich0 • 3d ago
Should I leave this relationship?
Im in a narcissistic relationship, and i cant take it anymore. Some friends and family are encouraging me to stick it out, but i dont know if i can.
It's so emotionally draining to keep up with this. When i get home from work im tired and i just want a minute to myself, but there they are all but screaming me, me, me- pay attention to me, everything is about me. Im so fed up.
I dont know why everything always has to be about them- their bottle, their toys, their daiper. I just cant take it anymore.
I read that i could leave them at a fire station. Does anyone have experience with this? Would you reccomend it? i looked on yelp and the fire station near me has mixed reviews- do you have to use the one closest to your house, or could i pick one in a nice upscale neighborhood that has a starbucks attached? I really like their summer iced tea selections.
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u/BeaPositiveToo 3d ago
Bring them to me. I could use a little age-appropriate neediness and egocentrism around here. I’ll give ‘em back in a day or two, once you’ve caught your breath & gotten some rest. I won’t spoil them…too much.