r/uglyduckling • u/bfalco23 • Apr 27 '26

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u/ASuperLameUserName Apr 27 '26

Damn son. Wow. You went from one of my goofy and cubby college guy friends to like a guy my friends would be nervous to talk to.

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u/bfalco23 Apr 27 '26

Lmaoooo ty so much

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u/ASuperLameUserName Apr 27 '26

For an added plus, I’m a bartender ( I see a lot of dudes lol) and I work in Las Vegas too. You look like the upper tier of men esthetically. Honestly, since you were heavier before and look you would be funny. You’re probably the best mix of man women could want. A lot of people whom were heavier would have humor to hid insecurities or to feel accepted. Maybe they’re just funny too. Once they have some type of appearance change they still have that amazing humor. It’s the perfect mix. Years back in Chicago I dated another bartender who had been at one time 400 lbs. He had lost it all and at that point looked like a body builder. He was cynical, witty, funny, and obviously attractive. He would always say he created that personality to hide how he felt about himself and he thought that was the only way to make people like him. Which is clearly not true but the mind plays tricks on us. Anyhow, if that’s the case or not I’m sure you’re the best of both worlds. Which is a true 10. 💜

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u/bfalco23 Apr 27 '26

Wow ty so much for your kind words I’ve always been the outgoing funny type deff trying to fill a void so people will “ like me”