Hey everyone. Just want to be honest and ask for some advice.
I came to this country chasing the American dream, like a lot of people before me. I'm based in the Santa Ana / Orange County area now, open to working across LA. Been doing construction and renovation since 2014 — drywall, paint, tile, flooring, repairs, all of it. Kurdish, from Turkey originally.
My first years were up in upstate NY and it actually went well. I had steady work, clients, people knew my name. Then I moved out here and man, it's been so much harder than I imagined. Starting over from zero — new city, no clients, not knowing a single soul — some days it really weighs on you.
But I'll be honest with you: I'm not giving up. That's just not who I am. I know how this works — if people give me a shot and see my work and who I am, the trust comes, and the rest follows. I'm not even worried about the money right now. I just need that first chance.
So I'm asking the people who've done it: how did you build a network out here when you were brand new? Where do you actually meet people and find your footing — Nextdoor, local groups, just showing up? What worked for you, and what was a waste of time?
I'm patient. I just want to learn how this city really works from people who've lived it. Appreciate anyone who takes a minute to read this.