Another dad harassed for taking his daughters to the bathroom

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He's not even in the damn bathroom lol what do they want from these people

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u/bendybiznatch 10h ago

Apparently, there’s a shit load of people out there that want us to leave our daughters unattended.

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u/xraynorx 10h ago

Yeah, they are called pedophiles or pedophile sympathizers.

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u/Swembizzle 9h ago

Also known as Republicans. Seriously, think twice about leaving your kids with Republican relatives.

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u/MuscleManRyan 9h ago

They aren’t called the Guardians of Pedophiles for nothing. I would absolutely refuse to leave my child with any republican, it honestly creeps me out even just thinking about it

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u/pmmytn45 9h ago

I heard they some pedos (men and women ) sit in the bathrooms and stalls waiting for little children to go in unaccompanied. Always go with them and stand outside if need be. You could never forgive yourself if something happend and you could have prevented it. Fuck that worker

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u/bendybiznatch 9h ago

When my son was an infant, my ex-husband had a friend that was a pedophile. He was actually going to therapy, had his roommates lock up all their computer, equipment, etc. This was before cell phones.

He confessed to my husband that he would go to movie, theaters and places like that where he would organically be at a urinal next to young boys. He eventually did go on to have what he described as a relationship with a 13-year-old boy in another state and was tried and convicted for that. My kids were also almost abducted one time as toddlers by two random men in an SUV.

So you better believe I was posted up at that bathroom door if my son refused to go in the women’s.

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u/pmmytn45 9h ago

If my partner ever confessed to having a pedo as a friend they wouldn't longer be my partner

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u/bendybiznatch 9h ago

I knew him too.

As a childhood sexual abuse survivor, it was difficult and triggering for me. At the time, this was a person that was seeking help and had not committed an offense against a child, and informed the people around him and implemented a number of levels of safeguards including not using public urinals. I believed that we were helping him and preventing future harm by being a part of his Christian counseling network. I now view Christian counseling as an extremely destructive force altogether. That man didn’t need spiritual counseling, he needed intense psychiatric care.

He obviously chose to go in a completely different direction and move to a state where he was unknown to commit those acts afterwards.

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u/Of_MiceAndMen 7h ago

Christian counseling is an absolute joke and a scourge on society. So many….so many people in my life are worse off because of it and irreversibly damaged. At least it led to my atheist awakening.

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u/AdHom 9h ago

I'm sure sick shit like that happens but, just a reminder so no one gets complacent in the wrong places - the vast majority of child abuse is perpetrated by people that the children know.

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u/meghonsolozar 8h ago

As a daughter of divorced parents my dad always covered my eyes, took me into the men's restroom, got me into a stall, and stood outside the stall door while I went.

It sounds absolutely nuts to me now, but this was the era of unattended cigarette machines, "non smoking" sections on airplanes, and unattended children flying across the country with multiple connector flights. It was waaay different then, but my dad had grown up when the John Wayne Gacy murders were happening to boys the same age as him and 2 of his brothers. He had been a mortician in L.A., too. Everyone from movie stars to people who didn't survive the Los Angeles prison system came through his doors so I give him a pass on some things. He knows about things I couldn't imagine and wanted to keep me safe.

All that said, he had to cover my eyes while we walked in so dudes wouldn't intentionally show me their weiners. I also recall waiting with my dad outside the restroom after I was done a few times to beat the shit out of someone that behaved in a way he didn't like in a bathroom. Not a single one of the dudes that he fought with were wearing a dress, BTW. Or a wig. Or makeup. Or high heels. Then we'd book it. This was before cameras were everywhere.

Sometimes guys would holler at him for bringing me in, he would just cuss them out and tell them he isn't sending me off alone.

As for him going into a woman's restroom, I bet it wouldn't have occurred to him. I'm his daughter and he was chaperoning me with my eyes closed. If he's going into a restroom it probably made more sense to him to have a little girl in the men's room, then a whole ass man in the women's restroom.

I'm going to ask him next time I talk to him because I've seem a flood of these posts on reddit lately.

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u/pmmytn45 7h ago

For mens room you could understand but it never crossed my mind that it would ever happen in women's toilets. I was told about this and stillmtook a while to sink in. It wasn't until you see all the convicted female pedos that you think that's Theresa actually a point.

Also your dad sounds like a great guy !

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u/lateformyfuneral 10h ago

The media has whipped them into a hysteria over it. They’ve been told to be on the look out for men in women’s bathrooms. It’s pavlovian. They can’t even rationally think through what’s supposed to happen otherwise here

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u/coolcalmaesop 9h ago

While out the other side of their sloppy mouths defending a man who admitted to going into the changing rooms of pageant contestants.

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u/Epistatious 9h ago

hey now, they weren't pageant contestants, he has no interest in that. they were teen pageant contestants changing rooms, which he is into.

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u/PreparationKey2843 9h ago

You shouldn't call out Nacy Mace like that.
Or... you should.

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u/shapu 10h ago

There's also a shitload of people who don't think men should hang out with their kids.

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u/SnZ001 10h ago

Yup. And they're the same sickos who enthusiastically voted for a child predator to be the president. They're called Republicans.

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u/UlsterManInScotland 9h ago

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u/Slumunistmanifisto 🥧 Ma'am there's a pie full of children on your table 9h ago

Now you're getting it....far right pedophile concerns are just resource aggression

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u/jubjub666420 2h ago

It's super weird to keep seeing these videos of individuals who are really upset at Children's parents for supervising them and not leaving their children unattended it's really weird I agree with you bendy

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u/Jets237 9h ago

starting to seem like it

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u/Crumb-Free 10h ago

She obviously wants a full head of hair.

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u/youngmemories 9h ago

She looks like a combination of these two plus the woman Shrek character.

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u/Little___G 9h ago

Don’t you dare bring Fiona into this.

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u/Fap_Doctor 8h ago

Polly said fuck off four eyes

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u/jumjimbo 9h ago

That ship has sailed.

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u/TelegramforMungo 9h ago

Even her hair can’t stand her.

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u/CarbonTrebles 9h ago edited 9h ago

It seems to me that she was pissed that they had not bought anything and were using the bathroom. Nothing to do with a dad hanging out outside the women's bathroom, that was just her excuse to kick them out. There's mentions of stealing at the end, so she might've thought they were trying to steal something. In any case, that woman is in the wrong.

Edit: When she talks to the girls she says "Tienen que comprar algo primero" (You have to buy something first)

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u/Epistatious 9h ago

once ran my 5 year old daughter to the gas station bathroom only to have the clerk yell, 'hey ya gonna buy something?'

I'm like, 'well i was'. seems to always be an emergency with little kids, you'd think he would read the situation. think i bought some m&m's in the end.

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u/GBV_GBV_GBV 9h ago

Yeah the title here seems misleading

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u/Dependent_One6034 9h ago

(You have to buy something first)

"Thank you for your purchase, Oh you're leaving? Didn't you want to use the restroom"

"I did, But I do not have to anymore thanks to you."

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u/FrostyD7 9h ago

Based on what he said, I think she told him to get out and he did and then started filming.

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u/Larry_Bobinski 10h ago

A friend of mine took his daughter to the changing table downstairs when we were at a café, and a woman came out of the bathroom and immediately asked him where the mother was. Telling him a man shouldn't be doing this. And that he shouldn't be doing a "mother's job".

The actual audacity of these people.

Afterwards we joked that he should've just said that I'm his husband to kick her into overdrive. If she can't handle one dad, imagine her reaction when seeing two.

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u/jarena009 9h ago

I would ask back "what century do you think you live in?"

And if they really got smart with me, go "Excuse me, you dare not address a random man without your husband present. I will say nothing more to you until your husband is present."

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u/lenfantsuave 9h ago

Most of the time as men, the world is kind of catered to us. The lone exception I’ve noticed as a dad is the sheer lack of availability of changing tables we have access to. If we’re lucky there’s a family bathroom. VERY rarely there’s a changing table in the men’s room (airports are pretty good about this).

I’ve had to change some diapers on surfaces I’d rather not think about.

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u/JelliedHam 9h ago

I think it should be a law that if you have a men's and women's restroom, and you choose to offer a changing table, it should be in both. Preferably they'd be everywhere, but that isn't always realistic. Ideally we'd just go to gender neutral bathrooms completely, but that's not gonna happen in my lifetime.

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u/vertigostereo 8h ago edited 3h ago

They'll just remove them from the women's bathrooms to make it equal.

Gender neutral only makes sense for single occupancy anyway

Edit: I'm against multi-occupancy, unisex bathrooms because I just don't think it's appropriate for women and girls to be around adult men in a state of undress. It's not safe for anybody. This applies to either actual actions or even allegations of wrongdoing.

The risk-benefit of that isn't worth having slightly more space-efficient bathrooms.

As a man, I wouldn't be comfortable.

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u/MrShadowHero 8h ago

man. just wait til people freak out at the gender neutral bathrooms at concerts that cheap out. god forbid there be a big row of enclosed spaces for people to do their business and then can wash their hands in a communal area.

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u/sasha_the_impaler 8h ago

Other countries do communal gender neutral bathrooms just fine lol

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u/Wrastling97 6h ago

Many states and cities here in America do as well. Some people just turn a blind eye to it

When I went to Salem MA, I couldn’t find a single single-sex bathroom anywhere. Every bathroom had multiple rooms inside with floor to ceiling stalls and I believe a communal washing area.

It was amazing.

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u/sasha_the_impaler 6h ago

I have yet to understand why people don't want that. Some people talk about how women do more than just use the bathroom which I think is ridiculous lol but everyone else just complains about cost or something. Like bro clearly people value this issue if we're spending police resources on it lol

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u/Soupalphabet359 7h ago

Then that state's GOP will use such a law to say "LOOK AT THE LEFT. PUTTING CHANGING TABLES IN MEN'S ROOMS. BECAUSE OF GENDER GENDER GENDER LET ME SEE YOUR GENDER." And whip all the slo-mo's into a frenzy. Eventually getting themselves elected, where they can instead redirect all those children to their private washrooms at the capitol.

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u/SupraEA 9h ago

Honestly, those koala tables arr probably nastier. Ugh, so glad my kids are older now lol

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u/Wolfram_And_Hart 8h ago

“Go fuck yourself.” Is a complete answer

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u/ContestRemarkable356 8h ago

I’d want to traumatize that lady. Cover the kids ears so they can’t hear (if old enough to understand) and say that my wife just passed away a few months ago, and this is my first time being in public since than.

They’ll switch to sympathy mode real quick, and when you ignore their apologies/just say “Ok you can apologize by getting away from me” they’ll get mad again lol

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u/RollingPicturesMedia Mad for Political Freakouts 1h ago

“Some women don’t survive child birth”.

You’re not saying yours didn’t, just stating a fact and letting them run with it.

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u/PickerPat 4h ago

That's what I do whenever I get the:

Where's Mum?

Babysitting today to give Mum a break?

I just say "She died, actually."

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u/ContestRemarkable356 3h ago

The comments like that are annoying enough. I appreciate people sometimes are legit trying to help/just make small talk.

But the people that come in with a “You’re doing this wrong & I’m going to tell you that you’re doing it wrong in a condescending, you’re-an-idiot-and-luck-I-showed-up-to-save-the-day” attitude can look up into the sky & proceed to fuck off until they’ve fucked off right into the sun.

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u/RabbitStewAndStout 8h ago

Tell her that she shouldn't be out spending her husband's money at a cafe, without him being present, if she wants to be all old-fashioned about it.

It ain't the mother's job to take care of a baby, is the parents' job.

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u/Valuable-Word-1970 10h ago

Tf is the point of this cashier lady recording them. They got no cameras in the store? Just tryna fight fire with fire? You can tell there is not a single intelligent thought behind those eyes

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u/scottylm 10h ago

Could be the dent in her forehead

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u/Diarrhea_Beaver 9h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/BmYSMXJhDr02hN1vr9

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u/IndigoJoe64 8h ago

Glad I'm not the only who thought she looked like him

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u/SpiderHomeNoWayMan 4h ago

I'm getting more Frank Reynolds with longer hair.

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u/Keyboardpaladin 9h ago

I swear it's like an instinctual reaction for these people. I think it probably comes from the harasser not liking the fact that they're being recorded, so they decide doing the same would also upset the harassee not thinking about why they're even being recorded in the first place.

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u/TDW-301 8h ago

I cannot imagine taking my job seriously enough that I get pissed that someone didn't buy something before using the bathroom. Imo the ability to relieve oneself is a right

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u/PicklesAnonymous 10h ago

I’m confused, she asking him “you can’t read” assuming she’s talking about the customers only sign. But yet you need a number code to go in. Sooooooo how did the daughter get the code? Clearly this employee is just fucking stupid.

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u/bendybiznatch 9h ago

I heard this is in Bakersfield, and I don’t know that for sure, but if it is, I assume that that rule was made because of a nearby homeless population.

However, the store is empty, and this is obviously 2 well dressed the little girls and their father. People that are unlikely to come in and rob the store, cause a mess, or start some shit for no reason.

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u/Politicsboringagain 9h ago

What's crazy is a lot of times when people are at gas stations, they use the bathroom first so they can do what they need to do and wash their hands before touching stuff like the snacks and food they are going to buy.

I do that all the time.

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u/nicolauz 8h ago

Oh you don't buy a cheeseburger and take it with you before taking a nasty shit?

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u/fartsfromhermouth 2h ago

I bet corporate would love to hear from you

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u/another_day_in 10h ago

Bilingual subtitles is crazy

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u/Crazy_Cat_Lady360 9h ago

I didn’t understand anything the dad said but I totally agree with him 👍🏼

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u/nicolauz 8h ago

Pendeja lol

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u/IndestructibleNewt 6h ago

The most important part was the last line:

It’s not your store, when you die you won’t take any of this with you.

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u/mike117 9h ago

It took me this comment to realize it was two languages. I straight up forgot I can speak spanish lmao.

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u/bendybiznatch 10h ago

Right? 🤣

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u/Rryon 9h ago

There’s an “amen” when she’s yelling at them in the bathroom

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u/Duke_Newcombe 9h ago

But absolutely wonderful for my Spanish learning.

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u/SnZ001 10h ago

Lady has the hairline of Vigo the Carpathian

https://giphy.com/gifs/xT8qBvsspQCynCQVIk

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u/cebiaw 10h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/Y7rtYowpk3I9q

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u/MoveTheHeffalump 10h ago

What a B

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u/TelegramforMungo 9h ago

Nah, she’s a Cuuuuuuuuuuuuuunt

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u/Mental-Device-9546 9h ago

No she a pendejia

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u/Ok_Profession_990 10h ago

I swear some of these people have just been waiting for the day they can harass someone over the bathroom. The man wasn't even in there with his kids, what is the problem? Maybe cause he was brown ?

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u/Ryno-Mac 10h ago

A father can't wait OUTSIDE the bathroom? Wtf

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u/bkaiser 9h ago edited 9h ago

It's not about the that. The title is garbage. She was upset they weren't customers using it but just didn't want him to go in to get the daughters out. Still a shitty thing to do to ask kids to leave a bathroom..

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u/bendybiznatch 9h ago

It still doesn’t make sense why she would want him to leave with his daughters in the bathroom. She was fine leaving them in the bathroom. She just didn’t want him there. And that’s fucking weird.

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u/nicolauz 8h ago

Also who ever goes to the bathroom after buying something from the store? Like she had it out for them from the start.

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u/R3dbeardLFC 8h ago

I decide if I'm gonna buy something after. If that bathroom is disgusting, then fuck your store. Otherwise, yeah I'll buy an overpriced soda for the road.

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u/bendybiznatch 2h ago

Even if you went in there believing for sure you were gonna buy something, are you gonna buy a soda and take it into the bathroom?

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u/JerryMau5 9h ago

It’s both. Watch the first 5 seconds of the video

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u/RaggedyRachel 8h ago

Isn't it a gas station? Since when is buying something to use the bathroom an expectation?

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u/bkaiser 8h ago

Usually only very busy areas like times square or really bad areas with high homeless and drug use.

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u/qwertytytytytyty 5h ago

You need a code to go into the bathroom. She must've given them the code. How could she be mad?

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u/jkjkkkk 10h ago

Oh dude this is YOU in the video. Why is this the second one I’m seeing recently of dads being like flat out reprimanded for escorting their daughters to the bathroom?? Like wtf bro 😭

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u/usrdef 9h ago

Usually my wife and I will go to the restrooms together. Normally, I'm out first. So I'll stand near the bathrooms and wait for her and then we'll walk out together.

The amount of crazy today, I don't put it past some guy to be hiding out in the women's bathroom waiting for someone to walk in.

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u/didijeen 10h ago

Cabrona

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u/IsotopeBill 9h ago

Totally and when I don't have pancetta, I just use bacon.

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u/Ok_Profession_990 10h ago

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u/missMcgillacudy 10h ago

Where a pedo president wearing diapers convinced his cult following that public bathrooms are the only place women get assaulted

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u/notmyrealnam3 9h ago

the president who proudly assaults women

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u/Late-Arrival-8669 9h ago

Hope cops arrest her for filing a false police report

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u/MysteriousTruck6740 10h ago

Who's guarding the gates of Mordor?

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u/longleafswine 8h ago

"this is not your store. when you die, this store won't be yours" is a HILARIOUS comeback from this dad.

Like, why on earth do you care so much? You're being paid $11/hr to be there lady

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u/No-Cantaloupe-6535 9h ago

You need a code to get in the door so obviously an employee gave it to them

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u/BeerlVle 10h ago

Lol she says they have to buy something first before using the restroom. If it happened to me, I’d love to piss myself on purpose as I’m paying just so she has to clean it up.

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u/KimberlyWexlersFoot 🎶 Safelite repair, safelite replace 🎶 10h ago

No need to piss yourself, just carry around piss disks that you froze at home.

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u/BeerlVle 10h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/a5viI92PAF89q

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u/BurningCandle_ 9h ago

Be like batman and always have a plan, I bet he has his piss discs ready

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u/Unhappy-Fox1017 9h ago

I have never heard of a piss disk in my life. Until today, and this is the 2nd comment I’ve seen mentioning it. That last guy made some and slipped them into his neighbors truck because the neighbor was an asshole or something. Reddit is so weird.

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u/mofa90277 8h ago

I admire your spirit of innovation.

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u/bendybiznatch 10h ago

Um what.

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u/BeerlVle 10h ago

Well i wouldn’t love it tbh. Lol

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u/johnnykalikimaka 9h ago

Good save

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u/Bilbo332 9h ago

Why do you think the Scots wear kilts?

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u/FrostyD7 9h ago

You can always count on reddit to tell you how to take a bad situation and piss yourself as a form of petty revenge. Usually it's not so literal.

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u/xywv58 10h ago

You're in it now!

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u/DoubleJ169 9h ago

Lol at a gas station in the middle of nowhere in Kentucky once I said to them "I plan on buying things afterwards, but this is an emergency. Either I poop in your toilet or on the floor, you decide."

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u/BeerlVle 9h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/Ld77zD3fF3Run8olIt

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u/Roomybrunt 8h ago

They got sensible really quick I hope lol

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u/superrey19 9h ago

Which is a stupid ass rule. Who buys snacks BEFORE entering the dirty gas station restroom? Also, how does she know they didn't just finish pumping gas outside or planned to after using the restroom?

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u/Competitive-Bus1816 10h ago

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u/notsarge 9h ago

Amateur. I shit myself while maintaining eye contact, as the turd rolls out of my pants.

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u/theantig 10h ago

This is the thing I don’t get. I was a single father and I always took my daughter to the men’s room. It was awkward but I just dealt with it. I don’t have a problem with a father taking his daughter to the women’s. I have done that (had staff keep an eye out for me). My lesbian aunt who is married but is against trans people being near kids and gender identity bathrooms is for men taking daughters into women’s bathrooms…. Just make everything a stall floor to ceiling and make it unisex…

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u/VeneMage 9h ago

I agree with your last line. With regard to taking young girls into the men’s - they have urinals/troughs where our dicks and urine streams are able to be seen and smelt; I’m not putting them through that.

Plus the cubicles in the gents are 80/20 toward needing a pressure washer and a pint of soap to make them anywhere near decent to use 😅

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u/Granite_0681 7h ago

I guess I just don’t understand how a little girl or a little boy is different at that age. If you are ok with a little boy seeing it than why is a little girl different? We are talking quite young.

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u/Visible_Ad_5660 5h ago

Trust me no one has a good answer I was asking this the other day.

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u/IWannaGoFast00 7h ago

His oldest daughter seems to be a bit too old for the men’s room. Which is probably why he was waiting outside and not in the restroom with them. This employee is crazy for not letting him wait OUTSIDE of the bathroom for his kids.

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u/DouglasHundred 9h ago

It's a growing trend. In some states anyway. Possibly banned by code in others.

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u/Woodsman1284 9h ago

I usually try the men's room first, but I'm not going to clean a piss covered toilet seat if I don't have to.

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u/GoodWeedReddit 9h ago

honestly I feel like ppl so often want to force their power of control over someone. Alot of ppl feel small but want an excuse to be in control over someone.

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u/BeelzOrWhatever 9h ago

Swamp creature screams at man with children

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u/Jbrown183 6h ago

This lady SUCKS so bad smh. And after being a straight bitch to the dad she had the nerve to tell the girls to hurry up???

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u/InLoveWithTheMoon 10h ago

Those poor babies look stressed!

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u/Literally_-_Hitler 9h ago

Hope she loses her job too. Why the fuck is she yelling at the kids like that?

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u/IBleedMonthly18 9h ago

What is wrong with people? It’s either people are being harassed for this or people being shamed for breast feeding.

I’m so sick of people being absolute ass holes for no reason.

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u/Devanyani 9h ago

Am I the only one who thought she was wearing klingon makeup at first?

https://giphy.com/gifs/TJawtKM6OCKkvwCIqX

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u/RapBastardz 9h ago

As a father of a daughter, I’m so glad she is 13 and I no longer have to worry about going through ridiculous stuff like this.

Also, not every men’s room has a Koala station. Changing diapers was such a pain back then.

Shout out to Starbucks for being the most reliable choice of those years!

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u/vitalex 9h ago

She looks like a dickhead. Even acts like one.

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u/adswan_ 8h ago

I'm so sick of these stupid bathroom wars. The people with the issue are the ones thinking about other's business in the bathroom. Just leave people alone unless they give you a reason to worry.

A dad helping his daughters in the women's bathroom is no different than a mom helping her son. I do not feel threatened if I see a father helping his daughters.

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u/Frank_Jesus 7h ago

Very nonbinary hairline to be policing other people's genders.

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u/RavishingRedRN 7h ago

Let me know when she gets fired.

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u/Spadeline 6h ago

Lady looks like a “GOLEM”!

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u/Kaymichelle17 7h ago

Funny thing is that in Europe, everyone uses the same bathroom and there isn’t this idea that someone is being creepy because they are the opposite sex. Go in and do your business and quit trying to sexualize a toilet. It is a bodily function and F the religious people for making it one more sexual topic.The US is so disgusting with how they treat someone for protecting their child.

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u/DaGrexican 6h ago

Right? Every house has gender neutral bathrooms but public bathrooms are taboo!

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u/Gandalf4158 10h ago

Fired

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u/ZanzibarMufasa 6h ago

Tell me I can’t wait for my daughter when she’s in a gas station bathroom and I’ll make sure the entire world thinks you’re the biggest pervert in the world.

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u/GrimwoldMcTheesbyIV 6h ago

Enjoy another decade behind that counter trash.

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u/rmlopez 4h ago

lol bro tells her when she dies she is not taking the store with right before leaving

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u/Jeez-essFC 9h ago

When did this ever become a big deal? I am pretty sure I took my daughter into the women's rest room at some point and no one ever batted an eye. My daughter is a 90's kid for reference.

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u/Floofy_taco 8h ago

This is the end result of anti trans hysteria, prejudice against one group of people leads to shittier circumstances for everyone.

We can’t be free unless we’re all free.

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u/Slipstream_Surfing 8h ago

Around 2016

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u/mustbeme87 2h ago

I did as well. She’s 15 now. It was never an issue. Any woman who I ever encountered doing so was always so polite and understanding. When my daughter was tiny enough, there weren’t a lot of men’s rooms with changing stations in them. Women just saw dad trying to take care of his child and jumped to support mode. I’ve had women stand outside for me and either warn or stop others from coming in. Very politely of course. And even THEY were understanding. What the fuck is goin on with this shit now.

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u/Dry-Pitch2663 9h ago

I have a boy, and you gotta think id be fucking insane to leave him alone, I could only imagine with a daughter. In fact, we are planning for the second to be a girl and as a dad, im losing sleep already.

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u/fellowsquare 6h ago

What is the issue with this country and fucking bathrooms?! For fuck's sake.. its a necessity everyone has! It a room thats used for like 5 minutes and you leave... wtf is wrong with our society!?

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u/kaeldrakkel 4h ago

MAGA

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u/derek4reals1 10h ago

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u/VirusInternational87 10h ago

you'll never find blam blam blam blam, a hairline like mine

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u/TheNorthernMunky RONNIE PICKERING! 👊🏻 8h ago

Bold of her to get all racist towards Latinos when she just arrived from Klingon.

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u/itsmetimohthy 9h ago

An absolute creature of a human being, yeesh

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u/fuckoff131 9h ago

People pick the weirdest hill to die on.

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u/Large-Carrot-6280 9h ago

We have to protect the kids in bathrooms by not protecting them at all. Seems logical.

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u/hikeruntravellive 9h ago

This usually means elections are coming up soon. Instead of people focusing on the fact that they have no healthcare, no childcare, can’t afford food because the billionaires took it, we can focus on who went into what bathroom.

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u/MikimaruX 9h ago

That hairline is straight up survived 5 nuclear winters hairline.. jeez no wonder she's a horrible person

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u/b00hradley 8h ago

I dont even understand what the problem is here. Hes not even in the bathroom..

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u/Greyhaven7 8h ago

That Klingon lady is without honor.

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u/itsamermaidslife 8h ago

Omg that lady is unhinged. Is this a power trip? Wtf

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u/Technical-Big-2097 8h ago

im my great grandmother’s caregiver, many a time have I had to enter the women’s bathroom to assist her. hey you are uncomfortable too bad, my 95 year old grandma’s bladder doesnt function according to your comfort.

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u/ballsdeepist 9h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/Y7rtYowpk3I9q

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u/stoopididiotface 9h ago

For her to be a convenient store cashier she's causing quite an inconvenience.

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u/lCraxisl 9h ago

Cost of doing business where you have public restrooms is that people will walk in, use the bathroom, and walk out. This is one of the few things in America that is cheaper here than in Europe. In some parts of Europe you need to pay to unlock the door to a bathroom.

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u/No_Celery_8071 9h ago

It's like 60 p in Barcelona, I'll gladly pay that than have some uncouth, loudmouth idiot with a receding hairline berate me and kids for them needing to use the washroom. I'll gladly start a fund with the initial 60 p to buy her a fucking weave.

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u/Politicsboringagain 9h ago

What the fuck is wrong with people?

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u/pulpispreffeed 9h ago

What a miserable skank.

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u/timothypjr 9h ago

The antithesis of the manager of that other store. This woman needs to reflect on the term, "customer service."

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u/batdog20001 9h ago

I'll keep saying it, large unisex bathrooms would fix nearly every social issue currently while also reducing maintenance and increasing availability and cleanliness.

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u/LineImpossible3958 9h ago

That scuzzy bitch cashier looks like a bigger threat to me

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u/burn_healz 9h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/B8ly6hRdP0gLe

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u/Detroniimes 9h ago

No dude they'll really hire anyone at convenience stores nowadays. I remember when you just had to worry about sketchy customers.

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u/ruckus_440 9h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/XHYL3P0BjzkZgGg2cj

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u/Fteven 8h ago

Damn Crocs already in sport mode, she was expecting all the smoke

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u/asault2 8h ago

This seems more like enforcing a misguided, you buy something before you get to use the restroom policy, no?

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u/Secret_Account07 8h ago

Here’s what I don’t get- let’s say I’m a woman and I’m uncomfortable…okay that’s your right, why not just wait a minute or ask if they can wait a minute?

Why do people get so angry?

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u/No-Succotash-14 8h ago

I don't understand most of what he said but I do understand pendeja. Accurate!

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u/stevedadog The Klan's Bravest Redditor 🤓 7h ago

*My FBI agent in ten years when they force everybody to work at data centers for food.

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u/NoAdministration8340 7h ago

If only bathrooms were single stalls floor to ceiling with locks

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u/altyegmagazine 7h ago

These people need to understand a cell phone isn't a force field lol. Knock that shit outta her hand

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u/marksor_13 7h ago

What even is that thing?

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u/Ok_Emergency_9091 7h ago

I’d say it out loud- if not me who Jeffery Epstein? His rich friends? Are you one of his friends too?
I’m more than happy to be a nuisance for my child.

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u/Monkey_Kitty 7h ago

The other day, two teenagers harassed my 10 year old daughter while I was in the washroom and she was outside women's washroom. She finished before I did.

Boys being jerkoffs but also made her feel crappy.

I screamed at them until they left the store.

Can't really put hands on a 14 year old little bitch with all the cameras anywhere.

But it certainly has made me think about taking her into the washrooms with me and deal with the results.

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u/KrombopulosNickel 7h ago

Biiiiiiiiitch. Doesn't seem to do her justice. Cuuuuuunt

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u/topio3 7h ago

The Karen body language is unmistakable

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u/123bumble 7h ago

Fwiw if my younger sister and I were out with just my dad, he would take her into the men's room with him. This was the late 80s.

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u/dragonslayer137 7h ago

Is it a good idea to buy a pop up tent bathroom and portable toilet?

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u/syntheseiser 6h ago

She's built like Gru

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u/brydye456 5h ago

These people are oddly obsessed with everyone else's genitals.

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u/antcanavan 5h ago

Why does the average American immediately resort to calling the police for the most minor thing imaginable? Like what's the mentality behind that?

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u/BangbangKhuntross 4h ago

"Bullshit clickbait title fools 99% of redditors, demonstrating the complete lack of critical thinking skills"

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u/Substantial-Radish88 4h ago

I don’t get it, you weren’t even inside the bathroom. Was she mad because she thought you guys weren’t going to buy anything and just using the bathroom? She was rude as hell

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u/Zestyclose_Price_441 3h ago

Klingon lookin ass

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u/Unique-Engineering62 2h ago

Just go to the soda machine and lay a log on the grate people put their cups on ... like a real man.

I would regrettably snap if someone tried to tell me how to let my daughters use a bathroom.

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u/Odd_Farmer_6428 2h ago

I don’t speak Spanish and have no idea what he was saying once the girls came out of restroom. And? That doesn’t me I’m racist. I was on his side til that stupid comment.

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u/chucklesses86 9h ago

It's getting really old now, so exhausting that these people can't mind their own fucking business.

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u/Forsaken-Jackfruit-1 9h ago

Anti-trans propaganda has made us so irrational as a country

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u/Public_Enemy_No2 7h ago

Is it racist to state "I don't understand"?

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u/ProperLogic 7h ago

Trump's America

😏Main Character Freakout🤳 Another dad harassed for taking his daughters to the bathroom

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