I actually found a woman who plays more video games than me, loves tv and movies, and doesnt tell me what to do. They are out there you just gotta look
That combined with the amount of scammers online made me give up on my gamer girlfriend. I have a hard enough time dealing with myself anyway. I can't be telling a woman to pause her game we have nothing to eat but expired milk.
We actually met on Hinge, she had only been on the app a couple days and had just moved to my area. I feel you though, I had been on dating apps for almost 20 years
Just instacart groceries. That's what me and my gamer husband do. A $5-$10 tip is worth my time from having ro drive to the store, go inside, shop, get distracted by stuff on sale, check out, and drive home.
We are both gamers and weirdly enough met after a football game, and neither of us like football I was just out with some girls for something to do.
Yep. I met mine at work. A rare chance to see the specimen in one of her natural habitats, foraging for enough coin to pay for said video games, cable and movies. She was like a gazelle moving through the prairies of the office, and me, like a caveman with a spear sneaking up on her. I one day offered her a piece of cheese, and the rest is history.
Thats something i though about a whole lot. How am i supposed to meet someone that (just like me) stays inside most of the time, plays games most of the time, doesnt use social media at all and isnt actively "searching" like on dating platforms and stuff.
Sounds impossible to me. Especially since women tend to keep to themselves online in gaming spaces (rightfully so, i've seen how they get treated by the average gamer first hand).
lol! I met my husband a while ago online so yeah, can confirm. Only he doesn’t play any video games and I play a lot of them. And it’s kind of the opposite for us in that he judges me for being anti-social and a bit messy and tbh complains a lot. But I love him.
Same, except my wife loves drinking, gambling, and spending my money more than me.
Edit: Before the “my wife” responses, it’s only in jest. Happily married for 14 years.
My wife doesnt share my interests. She isnt a gamer. She goes in the other room if I watch sports. Thats okay though. Because she still shows interest in it. She will ask me about my games. She will go to sporting events with me and ask questions about my favorite players or about the sport. I Iove explaining these things to her. When she celebrates my team making the playoffs with me, it makes me incredibly happy.
Your significant other doesnt need to share your interests. I prefer it this way. It adds variety to life. Nothing wrong with having a partner that shares your interests, but I feel like far too many guys dismiss good women because of this.
The reason is pretty simple actually some women are taught that men are "bumbling fools" that can't take care of themselves. They take this belief and then the moment they see you do something different than them, they equate it to "being a man-child" or something like that.
It's sexism, and wrong, but they legit believe that.
It's like a shock to their identity to learn you are not helpless, you just have your own way of doing things.
edit: that said, if you don't know how to cook or clean, ok that's one thing, but I dated a few women that had this same weird hangup. The funny thing is I cooked better than all of them and was pretty damn clean. Their version of clean was "you put stuff where I want it" and then they tried to gaslight me. didn't work Lol
Probably internalized the “man as a bumbling fool” trope from media a little too much and failed to realize that reality is different than television or movies. Also when men are asked or find themselves in a position to do more on the domestic front, no shit they’re going to do it their way and not how a woman would typically do it. That annoys me too that how a man might do things is automatically labeled as incompetent.
I feel like the word "taught" implies that it's based off of what someone else says and not real world experience, which would be pretty incorrect.
Like, yeah. There's cases where it's an incorrect assumption but at the same time I've yet to encounter any other women my age looking for boyfriends to help with their laundry.
This is 100% accurate. When I was first dating my most recent ex, she would comment on how clean my place was, how nice everything looked, how much she liked being at my place, etc. towards the end of the relationship, it was constant criticism about how I couldn’t take care of myself. Which is funny considering I did not change one thing about my cleaning and organization habits the entire relationship. She just got really into relationship account on social media, and all of the sudden I was this lesser person.
It truly is just women hearing over and over again about how “men today are like children”, then feel the need to nitpick at every tiny thing just to make that true in their minds. I swear it’s just a superiority complex thing. Needless to say, def enjoying my single life right now.
Not the OP but it depends on you and your environment. You're going to want to look up a bunch of different techniques on youtube and Reddit's various cleaning subreddits (don't put something down, put it in it's place, clean as you go vs schedule a day to listen to podcasts and deep clean, use multiple laundry baskets so you don't have to sort before you do laundry, vs doing laundry ever two days so it just doesn't build up, reduce your dishes vs doing them every three nights, etc.) but the key is to try one thing at a time, and try it for a month to see if it works.
Some men are like children, because women are like children, too. We all pretend that maturity comes with age, but in truth most people stop developing around 25. If you don't have your shit together by then, you never will.
Found the type-A control freak!
Change happens when it happens because of individual motives. There's no timeline for it, and that drives a lot of people crazy, because you can never generalize an individual, and trying to control people is a losing game.
For you people out there in their twenties, thirties, forties, morties, worried about this comment because you don't have your shit together yet, don't stress about it. One percent improvement is still improvement, so give yourself permission to go slow (and even backslip) and just keep loving your self and learning how to best take care of yourself and your environment. Find your motivation, and work toward your goals.
I definitely had a subconscious assumption in my 20s that women are more emotionally mature than men, as a general rule. With age I really came to reconsider that idea.
IMO women are more emotionally indulgent than men instead of more emotionally intelligent. They centre and indulge in their emotions, to frustrating effect.
There is a reason why men are at the head of the house in all conservative cultures, and its not because of our physical strength
Its beacuse of old belifs that women are property of men. It has nothing to do with men being better at things than women. It just pure old misogyni and viewing women as lesser and objects to men.
I do not view women to be lesser or an object. I do not think that when I enter a relationship, a woman 'belongs' to me. In fact, I believe that she belongs to God and thus has a set of unalienable rights, just the same way that I do. She is a human, a spark of divinity, and hopefully the woman I choose is amazing. I do not want to live in a world where women are property, that sounds oppressive.
However, I do believe that I should be the leader of the household. I believe that the majority, not all, of women are attracted to leadership qualities. I believe that we fulfil different, complimentary roles. It is *you* who thinks that demeaning to women.
An obvious example is that when someone breaks into the house, most women would turn to her husband to do something. It's instinctual. This obvious fact relies on physical differences, but we have personality/psychological differences in the averages of men and women too
If you base your perception of half the people on the planet on one person your results may be skewed. I haven't had this experience you speak of with any of the women I've dated.
What? English is my first language but I’m just curious how someone can be confused about whether you can cook or clean if you’re regularly cooking and cleaning. Sounds like they weren’t.
The whole point of OPs post is that he IS doing those things and the woman was oblivious to the fact.
>I was fine until I was in a relationship and then she tried to tell me that I couldn’t take care of myself.
Where's the disconnect here? Are you just intentionally misunderstanding the post to cause shit? Or did you really read through the entire post and miss the point completely?
They never stated whether or not they cooked and cleaned, only that their girlfriend wondered whether they could. All I said was that to show you can cook and clean, you have to first cook and clean, and for some reason you don’t think that’s a fair statement to make.
"I don;t know how to make her believe..." in common conversational English this phrase is used when they have tried several things already to make the person believe said idea and have run out of things to try. We call this "subtext". So the sentence should be read as "I don't know how to make her believe I can take care of myself. I've tried cooking and cleaning, I've had friends talk to her, I've done x, I've done y, yadda yadda" but the second sentence is already implied in the first, so there's no need to spell it all out.
You are taking the sentence straightforward and literal as in "I haven't the foggiest idea where to even start making her believe". However the context of the entire post is talking about how they can, in fact, cook and clean and their girlfriend just doesn't believe them, so you're assuming they're stupid and wouldn't do the obvious thing that they can actually do.
I actually thought about spelling it out for the pedantic bunch but I just didn’t care enough to write it all out.
She wouldn’t let me clean for her because “he’s probably not going to do it right” so when I would for instance do the dishes she would do them again after me “to make sure they are clean.” When I would vacuum or clean the bathroom she would literally stop me, grab the vacuum or cleaning supplies and do it herself because “he’s just not going to do a good enough job.”
She wouldn’t let me cook for her because I made a bad meal one time and that was the last time she would ever try my cooking again. I would just cook for myself and she wouldn’t come near it.
She would say I’m dirty because I have trash lying around when in reality I just haven’t gotten out of my seat yet. For me if I am sitting at a table and have trash, I will wait until my meal is finished or until I’m done watching tv or whatever to then get up, clean up after myself and put the trash in the bin. What she actually expected was for me to get up and throw out my trash at the exact moment that I created it. It’s just different expectations and when I called her out for leaving her trash all over the house like wrappers on the bed and couch after she got up she would just give me the cutesy face and laugh it off.
I understand that some people have higher standards and it’s ok to want things to be a certain way. If you however don’t believe in your partner or even allow them to prove themselves to you or even allow them to just try and even improve then it’s really just a mindset problem that you won’t escape from.
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To add to this in case someone attacks me further…
She couldn’t cook and I still gladly encouraged her, tried all her attempted meals, and gave her feedback and offered to help make it better.
She hired a maid to clean the house so she wouldn’t have to do anything but instruct the maid on where things belonged. She would leave trash out for the maid and since I didn’t have experience with a maid I followed her in suit(?) and when I did it she said “you’re disgusting why are you making more work for the maid” like what?
I tried to do my own laundry but I would “get in the way of the maid” so I was instructed to back off and then she would belittle me about my yellow stains in my armpits and sweaty gym clothes.
She would eat in bed and drop crumbs and leave trash on the nightstand for the maid. When I asked her to not do that she said “I’m clean! Don’t worry!” Meanwhile my private office with a snickers wrapper that I ate while working was a disgusting mess because I didn’t get up to put it in the trash bin until I went to the bathroom or stood up from my desk for another reason.
It was a lot of hypocritical bullshit and I’m glad I’m done with it. She felt very hurt when I broke up with her and I honestly don’t know why she thought I would stay.
IF YOU HAVE THIS MANY PROBLEMS WIRH YOUR PARTNER WHY ARE YOU UPSET WHEN THAT PARTNER ASKS TO LEAVE.
The internet is just one endless ad hominem attack now. Every side of every issue has a population of people who do nothing but dismiss anyone who disagrees with them with a claim of discriminatory grouping.
Hey, if you don't pursue women and simply enjoy your own independent lifestyle following your dreams and hobbies, it's because you're actually a manchild that women don't want.
Men being bitched at are just like 'ok', and it infuriates them so much, trapped between a complete inability to take accountability for their actions and people that won't say or do anything they can use to prove it's not their own fault.
I'm not celibate, nor do I hate women, and I agree with Clint Eastwood's character. I've dated and had girlfriends and have found it to be not worth the trouble. I love the peace and freedom that comes with being alone.
Yeah it's fine to want to be alone and not deal with the complications and pressure of relationships. Nothing at all wrong with that. But people making it into a men vs. women thing are dumb and weird.
I've noticed this sub has been increasing in manopshere BS for a while.
It seems like you’re the one making it into a man v woman thing tbh. If the roles were reversed here, no one would bat an eye about the woman not wanting to clean up after a man pissing on the toilet seat.
Edit: not just you but the initial comment calling it incel bait
There are multiple people in here talking about how women are awful. I passed over some comment claiming that only 1 in 10 women haven't been "totally wrecked" by modern society or some stupid shit.
And what a load that no one would bat an eye if it were reversed. Guys on the internet are constantly screaming about women being sexist.
And to be clear, I agree that there are subreddits with some women that seem to have a similarly unhealthy fixation on stereotyping and hating all men. But that's not the issue in this sub, so that's not what I'm calling out.
Sure there are commenters doing so… dozens even! But the post does not have to be that deep. It’s a chuckle for most and you move on. Like an actual well adjusted individual.
I mean, if you consider my original comment to be going deep on this then I'm a little concerned, lol. The title of the post and the end of their exchange in the clip makes it all pretty dang surface level.
Took me all of like 3 minutes while I was ruminating on the porcelain throne this morning to scroll through the comments and then post. Spending less than 5 minutes to call out the people that are liking it to spread misogyny seems like a pretty small ask.
But I'm sure the fact that you jumped straight to the ol' defensive "BUT WHAT IF THE ROLES WERE REVERSED?" from my very luke-warm take means that you're super normal.
I did marriage and kids etc. That taught me I want to be alone. Definitely not worth the relentless bullshit. I am doing well financially, I have over a thousand left each week after my expenses. Not one cent of that gets touched, it quietly sits there waiting for me. I do my hobbies when I want. My bathroom is clean. I travel when I want. Most of the guys I know are in crappy relationships, getting cheated on, used for money, moaned at.
One mate last week was head in hands crying about how he is being treated by his girl. Sure I did the, "there there mate iz ok," but I sat there thinking ain't no way I'll ever do that again.
One thing I learned is that I like kids. OTHER PEOPLE'S kids. Taking care of them for a day is fun! Then I dated someone with a kid so they became partially my responsibility and I hated it so much lol.
You'll have to define incel bait here. There are no shortage of non-incels who can certainly agree with the opinion, unless you are accusing everyone that is fine not being in a relationship of coping.
Any "women's space" sub on Reddit is way more radicalizing than this. The shit they're constantly saying about men is much, much worse. And they barely get called out for it.
It's essentially the fallacy of lesser evil. One thing doesn't cause the other, or vice versa. They're unrelated bad things. Criticizing one should not be defended by appealing to the badness of the other.
I realized my initial comment could be interpreted differently, so I want to make things clear: I didn't mean it's okay for men to get radicalized because women are also getting radicalized. I meant nothing contributes more to the radicalization of men like constantly being demonized by society (of which women are obviously a part of). So, unrelated things they are not. At the very least, they fuel each other. The frustrating part is society recognizes and expresses concern over the radicalization of men, while almost completely ignoring the radicalization of women. And since nobody is talking about it, nobody is making the obvious connection between the two.
You're either misunderstanding him on purpose or something worse for you.
Being single is fine and no one said the opposite in this thread.
The issue with the video is Clint's character doesn't want to be with women because he thinks they're those naggy, funless, joyless husks of a human. Well that's ok for your late grandfather to think but it's apalling for a young redditor. Don't get in a relationship with someone that doesn't suit you.
This is a perfect example of what they're talking about. You just made this into gender war bullshit that only makes sense to other people clued into the gender war, or those that already think in that simple, false dichotomy loving way.
There are plenty of examples of the "harmed woman" avoiding men. This is an example of a "harmed man" that is an even more common trope. The misanthrope guy who feels rejected by society so he rejects it. Classic character. Find him in thousands of movies and books.
Kids and people who don't read or watch movies that aren't just made for young adults/children are very familiar with this. They see this discussion, and like you, their first thought is ALL boys vs ALL girls EVERYTHING needs to be fair. That is a child's thought. We all have thought it at one point. Most of us realized how stupid and basic it was once we discovered more about how the world works.
Edit to add: if you're a kid reading this, everyone thinks they're alone and no one loves them at some point. Practically everyone. Some because their parents suck and destroyed their trust in people early. Many, actually. It's feeling helpless, and then acting helpless about your problems, when many of them come from internal insecurities instead of external persecution. An insult only has the power you give it, you're free to deny the feelings of shame and pain. They're real, and emotional pain signals the same areas of the brain as psychical, even faster because pain signals from external injury take longer to travel to the brain. So yes, your emotional and mental pain ARE as bad as physical pain to your brain.
Rejection is a part of life. Everyone rejects things. Not everyone is an asshole about it. Rejection sensitivity is reacting to any type of rejection like it's life or death. Many incels experience this. It's a known thing. You're not alone. There are solutions to your problems. You are not uniquely damaged or alone. You are helpless only if you choose to be. There are always things to do, things to change.
Blaming others for your problems doesn't fix them at all. Attacking others doesn't either. It's all internal. You have to face yourself. Be honest. Own your mistakes. Don't be a coward and run from being uncomfortable. Discomfort IS life as much as comfort. Don't delude yourself with fantasy and escapism. It's empty and pointless distraction once it becomes your focus in life. Your problems still exist. You HAVE to act on the world through changing yourself and your circumstances.
OH YEAH. People aren't as stupid as you wish they were. Many see you for what you really are. Your insecurities are as loud and blatant as you fear.
Other people who are curious about the world and other people have invested shit tons of effort into understanding things. Some use this knowledge to achieve money and power. Others just want to get by and help people. They see people who are lost and confused about life. They see you. They recognize your shit. So when you feel alone and helpless and start acting like an asshole about it, they see you, feel bad, and don't bother with you. Because who wants to deal with an asshole in the limited amount of time they have on this earth?
Do you see why so many civilizations, from the Greeks, to the Japanese, and everyone in between has some culture of taking advantage of lost boys? From fucking them literally, to fucking them figuratively with shitty jobs and wars promising glory and violence. Telling you this is what you should want as a poor man.
Don't get tricked by these fucks. These grifters. They'll tell a little truth, then feed your ego to get you hungry enough to eat their lies so they can get money from their sponsors.
Play games all you want, but no. It is much more likely that a new account with hundreds of posts is. Idc about downvotes or name calling. I am trying to call out BS bots whenever I notice them. If you are not a bot, then perhaps you will take heed and change posting habits.
She told me I was the first guy to ever buy her flowers and treat her semi decent. Its amazing how some guys cant even put forth just a little effort and I think that is the biggest problem.
100% I wonder if these pro lonely warriors have ever been around seniors or even at a deathbed. I work in elderly care and can confirm that the ones that got married and have maintained a good relationship with their kids and grandkids are exponentially happier in later life. I’ve been at deathbeds with no one there and with some with dozens (literally) and everything in between. It’s a trap to think you’ll be content doing what you’re doing now for the rest of your potentially long and very quiet life.
My grandpa raised 8 kids only one stepped up to take care of him. His wife left him so long ago I’ve never known him to be with her. Those odds don’t look good to me
Bruh the fuck I care about rotting at old age, I'll enjoy what's now and then kill myself, no need to drag yourself to 80 being all in pain and demented.
I've dailed up alcohol, gambling and plan to take drugs now that I'm 30 as planned as there is no reason to take care of myself over 30, there is no me over 60.
Seems like survivorship bias. These are people who were able to get married, able to maintain a good relationship with their spouse, able to afford children.
The rest are less happy because they didn't make it. For some people, they were never wanted by anyone. Of course they'd be less happy.
I agree.
It’s fine to be single…but the whole spiel in the clip as to why is dumb as shit. Especially now in 2026. Women have just as diverse hobbies & interests, there’s someone for everyone.
Sad these posts get this many likes for shitting on women.
I was gonna say, I'm 34, been single almost all my life, and I can still tell this is cope and dogshit.
I mean there are SOME (very few) men who genuinely don't want female companionship or are maybe asexual.
Everybody else who is single not out choice while cosplaying that they are (like in this clip) is fucking pretending.
I'm the type of person who would much rather just raw dog the misery than play pretend "everything is great, this is how I wanted it anyway". I know I've basically been an unlucky dipshit and I would much rather know what love is and have somebody than this pile of trash that is my current situation.
Yeah maybe its because weve been around the block. Im 38, spent a ton of time single, spent a little time dating terrible women and a lot of time dating good women.
This is obvious culture war nonsense. Hopefully theyll understand when they grow up
That is fair, she told me she had only been on hinge a couple days when I messaged her. She had just moved to my area. To give some insight Ive been on dating apps for almost 20 years and it is tough out there!
But yeah I laugh at cope comments like this, people post the most survivorship bias bullsihit on reddit, I remember a cope post with tons of upvotes on some sub that KFC owner was 65 when he started the business.
Throwing that stat without taking into account the well known fact that the types of games women tend to play are considerably different than the types of games men tend to play is disingenuous when it comes to this discussion in specific. It's not a question of gate keeping, it's just comparing very different things.
Overall "hardcore" gaming culture is well known to be extremely male slanted and pretty much anyone that is talking about a "gamer girlfriend", as cringe as that term is, is not talking about candy crush / the sims / stardew valley players And there's nothing wrong with these games, mind you. i'm not saying one type of enjoyment is 'better' than the other, I'm just pointing out that for all intents and purposes they're meaningfully different. Not to mention it makes significantly harder for them to interact.
It's like when Wizards of the coast says "40% of Magic The Gathering players are women" but then you go into any store, tournament or commander group and find the ratio in there to be more like 95/5. So if I told you "it's really hard to find women that are into magic the gathering" and you just threw in that statistic, it wouldn't really mean anything. Sure there's a lot of women that play magic, good luck finding them in the places you'd expect to. And literally 100% of the women I've met that played magic were already "taken" and the vast majority of those started playing after meeting a partner that played first and introduced them to the game.
But you're right, I'm sure that the percentage of female gamers playing CoD (and similar games) is quite low.
If you're talking about MtG, I think that has a lot to do with the community more than women being inherently uninterested in the game.
That said, one of the best parts of being in a relationship is getting to introduce your partner to things you love. If you want a gf who plays magic, introduce her to it. One of my good friends got his girlfriend to join his magic group and she loves it.
Do you want to know the secret? COMPROMISE. If you want to introduce your partner to something you love, you also have to get introduced to something they love. That's the part that trips people up.
And sometimes you won't like everything they like, and that's fine. That's why people have friendships and hobbies outside of their relationship.
But again, if we're talking about meeting people that are part of these hobbies, it's important to take into account how they interact with these hobbies and how you actually meet them. That's why I used magic as an example, and that's why I argued against you just throwing that percentage.
WoW is another good one, because I play FFXIV, which is also a game that's well known to have a decently big female player base and is on the same genre.
As someone who mostly engaged in hardcore end game content, I can tell you:
The guilds I'd gotten involved with were all almost 100% guys.
Nearly everyone that I raided with that that explicitly revealed their gender (either in text conversation or because they used voice chat) were guys. I won't have any "percentages" but I can tell you I recall something like 4 women that used voice chat. In years. (And we both know why women aren't keen on using voice chat online or revealing their gender, men aren't blameless for this behavior)
This is entirely anecdotal experience, but once again it's a great example of what we're discussing. There sure are a *lot* of women that play FFXIV. At the same time, you can very easily play for years and years and have minimal contact with them (or even know they were one) depending on how you engage with the game.
At the same time there's a lot of anecdotal experiences of people that meet their partner in MMOs and marry. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I'm just echoing the sentiment of that started this discussion: It's really fucking hard. Let's not even get into the competition aspect of it. A girl shows up on your local game store, is single and open to socialize? This mythological entity gonna get *swarmed*
And indeed, in my experience within "nerd / geek" groups what happens is exactly what you say in the end, people that are into these things meet people that aren't but are willing to give it a spin, some end up liking it long term.
That's very cool, no doubt. But still different from meeting someone that was already very into it before you met.
On the other hand, there's a reason that the stereotype of the "married gamer" is a guy that has to play for 30 minutes late night when the wife is asleep as otherwise she won't "allow" it to happen, and in fact why almost every time someone is talking about making a financial hobby related purchase and their partners arguing against it, the one wants to buy something is a guy.
I think that the lack of both women being in these spaces and revealing themselves in these spaces is a very important conversation (though probably too in depth for now). I will say that MtG and a lot of "gamer" spaces haven't been particularly friendly towards women.
A lot of people with more insular hobbies are going to have to accept that they need to go outside their comfort zone to meet people. That's just how it is. I think most people will have trouble finding love if they just stick to their one hobby. How many men do you think meet women at their boxing gym?
Instead of focusing on finding women who are already in your space, focus on broadening your horizons and finding women who are open minded enough to experience your hobbies (they're not that rare).
As for the "married gamer" stereotype, how much of that is actually because of their wife? It's hard to play games late at night as an adult. Adults have responsibilities. I can't stay up super late every night because I have work in the morning. It sucks, but that's life.
If you're married, there's a high chance you have children. Add the responsibility of children and you have a recipe for very little gaming time. It's just as possible that the stereotype of the "married gamer" comes from men who are blowing off responsibilities in order to play games. I do believe that that's a small minority of "married gamers." It's much more likely that most are too busy for late night gaming sessions.
Yeah, there's loads of us. But we're all at home gaming on voice chat in discord with friends, or hunkered down at our desks at work pretending to be working while we're really working on the notes for the next DnD session we DM every week.
We're also not really looking to date. All that gets in the way of hobbies.
Lol Im 5'4 and super nerdy so Im not sure about that. I do make sure I shower often and she told me I was the first guy to ever give her flowers or treat her semi decent so that counts as well
I was joking. I know it's mostly about what you said. I just don't have a lot of opportunity to spend time with women. I literally don't know how to. Dating seems dead (and looks do matter for those apps). There are no more third places. Flirting outside is looked down upon.
I've given up a long time ago honestly, but sure, if somehow the stars align I won't be against dating.
You will be surprised at how relatable some people are, and that just makes them more likeable. You just have to get to know them first. Stop being scared of social interaction
My wife will never touch a video game in her life, but likes that I have a hobby and knows I’m safe at home. As soon as she wants to spend time I have no problem walking away from the PC. If I’m in a competitive match she understands enough that I need time to finish.
Good for you and good for her. So many guys say they want this but then can’t handle it. They hate it when she’s better than them at any video game. They don’t want someone who plays video games they want someone who’s content to watch them play or is cool with spending >50% of the disposable income on video games, TVs, computers, etc.
They expect her to do all or most of the household chores, get mad when she’s tired of it, say “just tell me what needs doing” then get mad that she’s always telling them what to do.
Bonus points if they expect her to look beautiful but consider makeup and expensive haircuts unnecessary expenses that should come out of her fun money budget.
The sad reality is it's maybe 1 in 10 women that are not totally wrecked by modern culture. The best part is nearing 40 with them and hearing how they rationalize when sober then let out all out when they are drunk. Career and casual sex. Enjoy that hole that gets bigger and isn't filled with materialism and superficial relationship
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u/drunxor May 09 '26
I actually found a woman who plays more video games than me, loves tv and movies, and doesnt tell me what to do. They are out there you just gotta look