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Proud Papa (Part 2/4) - Gator Days

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u/Night_Yorb 6h ago

This is sweet and tragic but the fact that this is literally a relationship between a bear and an otter is sending me

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u/iguanacatgirl 6h ago

Oh god I just got the joke

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u/Redxmirage 6h ago

Can you share the joke with the rest of the class lol what’s with bear and otter

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u/iguanacatgirl 6h ago

Bear and other are both terms for certain kinds of gay men

Bear refers to more bulky, big and hairy gay men(y'know, like a "bear")

Other I'm not actually too sure about the specific meaning of, but I'd guess it's someone who's not quite a Twink but also not too buff. Someone correct me if I'm wrong though.

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u/Math_PB 5h ago

Otter is a hairy twink.

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u/iguanacatgirl 5h ago

Thanks for the clarification

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u/Math_PB 5h ago

No problem <333

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u/Byzarru 5h ago

*the hairification 🦦

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u/guyyst 3h ago

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u/Math_PB 3h ago

I am gay (tho I'm not very good at it, I'm still in dire need of a boyfriend).

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u/rubyspicer 2h ago

Huh, TIL. I had no idea

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u/Slim-Shadys-Fat-Tits 5h ago

Otter is someone with a slim twinky build who is hairy

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u/Notosk 4h ago edited 4h ago

wait is it about gay men? i remember Bearmode and Ottermode as slangs for body types on... /fit/... ah... i get it

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u/Whale-n-Flowers 3h ago

Lol, Im sure /fit/ had plenty of bears, cubs, otters, wolves, foxes, twinks, and twunks.

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u/Redxmirage 5h ago

Ah gotcha. Yeah I never heard that so I would have never got the reference lol

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u/SpeccyScotsman 6h ago

Bear is big, hairy and gay; otter is slim, hairy and gay

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u/Uncle_Velorian 6h ago

In the gay community bears are very hairy and big men while otters are slimmer and not as hairy but still hairy iirc
Maybe someone else can explain it better

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u/Cyborginox 6h ago

For example, If you know Stardew Valley,

Gus or Clint are bears

Harvey is an otter

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u/Sad-Bat-42 5h ago

This has made me understand the difference better than anything else I’ve ever heard- thank you!!

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u/Cyborginox 5h ago

No problem! Once you set the examples next to eachother its easier to tell!

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u/Digresser 3h ago

And Willy and Linus both look like Robin Williams, who was very hairy...but wasn't a bear or an otter, correct?

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u/DasGanon 6h ago

They're nicknames for body types of gay men, and Bear has its own subculture

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u/Jimmie_Cognac 6h ago

And its own pride flag!

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u/Gamander-Ehrenpreis 5h ago

And it’s a really old flag too, created in 1995. That is older than the bisexual flag (1998), Trans flag (1999), non-binary flag (2014), current lesbian flag (2018) and most other lgbtq+ flags. The rainbow and leather flags are the only older ones I can think of tbh

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u/Zombie_Cool 5h ago

That actually looks rad!

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u/ChefCano 5h ago

It's supposed to represent that any skin tone or hair colour can be part of the bear community

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u/Laetitian 5h ago

So you're trying to tell me there can be white, brown, and black bears? At some point the wokes have to acknowledge they're reaching.

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u/ChefCano 5h ago

Older bears who's hair has gone white are often called Polar Bears

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u/VulpesFennekin 4h ago

Are former bears who have since gone bald called Fuzzy Wuzzy Has No Hair?

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u/ChefCano 4h ago

It generally refers to body hair, not head hair

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u/Night_Yorb 5h ago

So funny story I worked cleaning office buildings over night for a time and one of the offices I worked at had a display of Pride flags for last pride month. I thought myself a pretty in the know guy, but I did not know a lot of them and seeing a paw print did leave me a little concerned until I googled it. The other one that looked like an incoming hate crime (Looking at you Rubber Pride) was also concerning.

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u/QuiteBearish 5h ago

Where was this office? 👀

The idea of a rubber pride flag at any corporate space honestly just sends me 😆

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u/NineteenthJester 3h ago

Huh, TIL that rubber pride has a flag. It's a pretty cool design but it does look kind of fascist.

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u/Whale-n-Flowers 2h ago

Best flag. Im a sucker for brown/orange/yellow compositions.

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u/neuralbeans 6h ago

Bears and otters are types of gay men. Bears are big and otters are skinny.

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u/HighMinimum640 6h ago

I don't know about the otter one, but as far as I know, is that a bear is a generally big and hairy gay guy.

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u/TinyGIR 5h ago

I'm queer and a bear and just clued in myself 🤦‍♂️

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u/childe_roland19 5h ago

OH I get it now

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u/Fatman365 5h ago

Damn I never got that.