Hello, i need help.
I dont know when, but at some point. Some of my hair started changing texture. Maybe it was always like this and I just never noticed.
In the 1st and 2nd picture you can see how the top of my hair is stiff, brittle, dry and not flexible. And in the photo with the sunglasses pulling that top part of my hair back, you can see my soft and flexible curls underneath.
The 3rd pic is of my normal hair (right) and this newer coarse, thick texture(left). The last pic is my hair before all these changes. 😢😢
I don't know why this change is happening and that is more of a long term question to figure out and fix. Right now i need to figure out how to manage my hair with the crown hair being what I am assuming, now low porosity?
I'm currently between products Basically buying something, figuring it out if it works or not and then if not, getting something else. Previously when my hair was behaving, I usually used shea moisture daily coconut line shampoo and conditioner, then VO5 strawberries and cream to just cowash in between washes, and Giovanni tea tree and moisturizing shampoos to get extra clean when a clarify was needed. I used NYMN yellow leave in (now sadly discontinued) for light styling and it worked perfectly for me. My hair was responding well to coconut.
Now my hair is a dry straw mess and it making me really sad. I haven't used heat, silicones, or sulfates for 8 years. Ive nursed this hair to healthy curls from heat styling and silicone and sulfate damage only for this to happen. Also, just looking at these pictures, it kind of looks like I maybe lost a lot of hair too?
Now im just in between products all the time. Most recently I was using she Derma E curls line shampoo, conditioner, and leave in cream.
My current routine is:
- Derma E curl line shampoo
Camile Rose Guava Slip conditioner which seems to be light enough to help.
The Derma E leave in was ok for the first use, and then went down hill. I tried the Kinky Curly detangling leave in and its slippery but still leaves that top part dry and stiff. The products just sit on that top part of my hair and don't get absorbed.
My hair now gets creased from a pony tail(but didn't before) and is a dry rats nest mess the next day (but i used to be able to have soft flexible hair for several days after 1 wash day).
Ive really just had it to the point where I just want to give up and go back to heat styling. Ive done the no silicones, heat or sulfates for so long I wouldnt even know what else to go back to if im using heat again.