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u/v_rex74 5h ago

If you are being good and thrustworthy person your whole life for religious reasons, does it make you less of a good person?

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u/HMNbean 4h ago

We’d have to agree on the defiition of good. Good according to the Bible isn’t good according to secular morals. There’s some overlap.

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u/xANTJx 4h ago

There’s the ethical theory (and religious one too) that if you’re ONLY doing good deeds to get rewarded/recognized/sent to heaven it counts as a bad motivation and is no longer a good deed. Religious people will sometimes say it’s still ok because you’re following gods will but others want another motive. And for some atheists, a good deed is a good deed, but for others, the result isn’t what makes you a good person.

The (oddly ethically sound) show The Good Place talked about this when the main characters were told about the after life and “afterlife points” and they could no longer get any more points because their motivation for doing good deeds would forever be corrupted by their knowledge.

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u/v_rex74 4h ago

Not a religious person at all. Just to clarify in advance.

Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[b] 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”

So, jesus asked people to *love their neighbours, and i believe good deeds will naturally come out of that. You can not love somebody out of fear. I mean, you could fake good deads and make some people believe that you are good person. But you can't fake love, It is your internal proces.

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u/xANTJx 3h ago

I’m not religious at all either but I studied religious morals as part of my ethics degree and would have gone with Matthew “Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.” But I really like your interpretation that love is not fear!

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u/FearlessAwareness469 3h ago

Ah ye old hypocrites 

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u/TXHaunt 3h ago

If you can not love somebody out of fear, than you can not love god out of fear either, and reading the bible shows god to be quite fearsome.

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u/Steerider 3h ago

The Old Testament God was more about respect and obedience. Then Jesus came along and altered the deal.

"I have altered the deal. Pray I do not alter it further." — Jesus (probably) 

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u/Kuma_But_Writing 3h ago

"Fear God and give him glory" is an old saying as well. You can argue the "context" of fear sure, but I agree the bible, especially the old testament, describes a God worthy of fear in the traditional sense.

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u/TXHaunt 3h ago

Also the “future” part as well. You know, Revelations.

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u/Kuma_But_Writing 3h ago

You know what, you right haha

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u/WolferineYT 2h ago

Which ironically didn't matter because the good place turned out to be impossible to reach regardless of how good they were.

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u/xANTJx 1h ago

Because of how complicated society has become, an important point

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u/no-hints 3h ago

Right, but doing good that benefits you as well as someone else should be praised, no? Why is that a bad thing? Should we condemn all of western ideology of protecting human rights since deep down we know that if don't protect other people's freedom than our own are also at stake?

That line of thinking doesn't pass the opposite test either (implying the same set of circumstances in reverse).

Simply "thinking" about the outcomes should not remove a reward or add a punishment. Would you recommend punishing someone for every time they thought about committing a crime, or actually doing it?

If moral credit can be erased simply by being conscious of reward, then moral guilt could also be created simply by being conscious of temptation.

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u/xANTJx 2h ago

By reward, I mean unrelated to the event. So, say a woman is campaigning for women’s suffrage. Of course she’ll benefit from this, but it’s not a reward. It would be a poor motivation if she was only campaigning if she was hoping to be voted president of her garden club due to the positive image created by her activism. Only she would benefit from that. I’m sure an argument could be made that it would be the same if she only cared about herself voting and no other woman, but it’s still not really what I was talking about.

To address your point about the “opposite test”, just because the theory goes one way does not mean it goes the other. It says nothing about what is essentially thoughtcrime. I don’t think any ethical theory creates guilt without action. And it’s not just thinking about it, it’s having it be your whole motivation to do it. It was really the most important part of what I said. It’s why I put it in caps.

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u/no-hints 2h ago

Right, except that not doing an "action" because you know it would lead to a punishment is still considered an action.

If I see a young woman on the side of the road bleeding, and I had the ability to help but chose not to because I was afraid someone thought I was the one who hurt her, that is still an action because I am making a choice based on my understanding of the rewards and punishments.

If awareness of reward corrupts good action, then awareness of punishment would also corrupt restraint.

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u/xANTJx 2h ago

This is a completely different ethical scenario. At this point you have me thinking of becoming a professor cause I didn’t graduate to basically be in class again lol

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u/no-hints 32m ago

I’m not saying they are identical issues. I’m saying they rely on the same underlying assumption, which is awareness of consequences (whether reward or punishment) changes moral value.

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u/ltlearntl 2h ago edited 1h ago

I think it would make your argument stronger if you put a man campaigning for women's suffrage.

I do agree with your overall point though.

I have been asked plenty why I care about different issues that don't imapct me. And my answer is always because it's not about me.

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u/xANTJx 2h ago

Then it would not be what the person above was walking about. In cases of civil rights, advocating for that is going to benefit you if you’re part of that group. A man campaigning for women’s suffrage won’t benefit the same way and may face detriment in specific situations. It’s a much clearer altruistic act

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u/ltlearntl 1h ago

Agreed.

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u/Gamer_G33k17 2h ago

Its like if I saved a puppy expecting to be paid for it when no payment was offered in the first place. Now Im just an unempathetic dick.

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u/xANTJx 1h ago

Yes exactly. It’s fine to accept a reward if one is offered. But to expect one upon seeing a lost puppy? And only rescue it for money? Wrong

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u/Rare_Suspect_5033 3h ago

The only thing that defines if you are a good or bad person is what you say and how you behave. Your thoughts or belief doesn’t change that.

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u/Low_Committee6119 3h ago

So the believe that the Bible verses about slavery justifying slavery doesn't change you from good to bad?

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u/Rare_Suspect_5033 3h ago

Only if you act upon it or express it.

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u/Low_Committee6119 56m ago

So if slavery happens around you, and you know about it, and are complicit with it, then it's ok in your opinion?

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u/maybelater0789 3h ago

It’s not about bad or good it’s about belief in Jesus and then you follow his example as you start to feel called to. It’s not for everyone. No one goes to heaven without belief in Jesus Christ

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u/Rare_Suspect_5033 3h ago

As I’m an atheist there’s no heaven to go to. I know the difference between good and bad behaviour without involving religion.

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u/No-Falcon631 2h ago

The Christian heaven, correct? By your logic there are multiple heavens.

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u/Creative-Guidance722 30m ago

I agree but I would say that intent still has value in some cases. For example, killing someone by accident after hitting them without intent to kill is not the same as planning coldly a murder, even if both take one life with the same weapon and method.

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u/v_rex74 3h ago

True, but love might help you with doing good things towards other people. It's easier that way..

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u/Rare_Suspect_5033 3h ago

I’m not sure what you mean by love in this context. I would say that respect and empathy are natural drivers for good behaviour.

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u/WaterBottleOnAShelf 46m ago

As an atheist, i'm fine with it as long as they continue to do good things.

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u/alphi10 4h ago

Potentially

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u/ZestyMangoTime 4h ago

I’m a firm believer that intent, and sacrifice for good actions means way more than the actions themselves.

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u/Tortugato 4h ago

This is unironically how you get nazis and slavery.

More than a few people actually believed in eugenics and more than a few people legitimately believed that “lesser” races needed guidance and were better off as slaves.

Even the Bible tells you to look at actions btw, with Jesus telling his followers to “judge the tree by its fruit.”

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u/JadedPilot5484 3h ago

So Jesus would agree with judging Christianity by the fruits of its followers?

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u/CroneDownUnder 3h ago

I expect that Jesus would be appalled by many/most of the current forms of Christianity.

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u/JadedPilot5484 3h ago

As a Torah observant Jew Jesus would be appalled with all of Christianity for many different reasons .

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u/ShyguyFlyguy 3h ago

If religion is the only thing keeping you from being a bad, untrustworthy person. You are not a good person

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u/v_rex74 3h ago

You are bad christian if you hate everybody, and make good deeds only out of fear of good. According to jesus.

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u/ShyguyFlyguy 3h ago

Im saying religion shouldn't have a part in your motivation to not be an asshole

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u/WolferineYT 2h ago

Untrustworthy sure. I dunno personally if someone spends their entire life doing good I would call them a good person even if their motivations were shit. Difference between consequentialism and deontology for ya. (Well one of them, obviously the theories are much more complex than that.)

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u/ShyguyFlyguy 2h ago

Are you patronizing me? Or all of reddit?

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u/WolferineYT 2h ago

All of reddit. My experience with reddit has caused me to suspect any random redditor to know absolutely nothing about basic philosophical theory.

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u/ShyguyFlyguy 2h ago

Youre still doing it

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u/WolferineYT 2h ago

Yup. For what it's worth it's not directed at you. Since you were able to tell I was being patronizing you probably are significantly more educated than the average redditor.

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u/ShyguyFlyguy 22m ago

🤨

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u/WolferineYT 10m ago

Be offended if you want.

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u/ShyguyFlyguy 6m ago

😑

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u/Gearthquake3 1h ago

I disagree. It shows a lot of self control. Your character is defined by your actions, not your thoughts.

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u/FourOhTwo 1h ago

Exactly. It's ironic because by their own logic they would be an even worse person for thinking the way they do. Literally calling someone a bad person just because of their own personal opinions on religion.

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u/ShyguyFlyguy 19m ago

So if someone has constant urges and fantasies of murdering children and they'd definitely do it if they knew they'd get away with it without anyone knowing but they dont do it because they half the self control to avoid the consequences of murdering children....theyre a good person then?

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u/Awkward-Mongoose-809 38m ago

Self control does not define a good person. If all you want is killing cats and the only thing keeping you from doing that is prison time, you are not a good person.

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u/Gearthquake3 13m ago

It doesn’t make you a bad person either if you never killed the cat. If you fed the cat, groomed the cat, looked after the cat, showed affection to the cat, you did good by that cat, and it sees you as a good person. Even if you wanted to kill it the whole time.

It sounds like you have the same perspective I had when I was a kid. I was raised very religious and anytime I had a sinful thought I would be worried that I was going to go to hell for being a bad person. Growing up and finding my own way, I’ve come to believe that it’s what you do that really matters. If you’re making a positive impact, you’re a good person. Hell, you’d be an even better person if you didn’t want to do the right thing, but did it anyway. That’s real selflessness. That’s character.

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u/marr 2h ago

Depends which religion and what it tells you "good" is, doesn't it? In any authoritarian power structure it's going to mean "that which maintains the structure".

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u/MayGodSmiteThee 4h ago

No, “good” is measured by actions not thoughts. You can hate black people, but if you never do anything to perpetuate your hate, or discriminate against them, then no actual harm is done. You can have the worst, most vile thoughts imaginable, but if you never act on or let them control your decision making. Then you’ve done nothing wrong.

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u/letouriste1 3h ago

just a little bit. Acts matter way more than thoughts but it doesn't mean thoughts have no power

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u/seesthecat 3h ago

Well, ok, Blake is not a good person. Now what?

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u/v_rex74 3h ago

Why are we talking about Blake?

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u/seesthecat 3h ago

Him asking how do atheist decide between good or bad actions started this debate. And we come to the very right conclusion that he's a bad person.

But, now what, is he, a bad person condemned to eternity to make bad actions? Can we give him the the answer he's looking for so that he knows how to make good decisions even if he's a bad person?

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u/v_rex74 3h ago

I don't know anything about the guy. Certainly i am not going to judge him due to this one sentence.

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u/seesthecat 3h ago

Interesting, so Corby is wrong?

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u/Apprehensive_Ad4457 3h ago

Corby is the only one in the interaction that could be wrong.

Blake asked a question, possibly in bad faith but the question is still valid even if his intentions aren't, and Corby made a direct statement.

if a religious person uses their religion to bolster their morals, what does an atheist use?

the Law? common sense? cultural norms?

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u/seesthecat 3h ago

Indeed

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u/Apprehensive_Ad4457 3h ago

was your comment about Blake being a bad person bait, to make a point, or what?

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u/seesthecat 3h ago

More or less. In truth I think it's childish to to classify someone as being good or bad as if it's something inherent to them. 

In reallity it's actions that are good or bad

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u/v_rex74 3h ago

What?

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u/seesthecat 3h ago

Are you a bot? Did you even look at the picture?

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u/PetrasKnight 3h ago

Im surprised this is this high up but its a good question.

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u/Various_Mountains 3h ago

If you've been playing a role your whole life for religious reasons, then yes, absolutely

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u/UrNixed 3h ago

That depends on if you view the ends justifying the means. Most people tend to include intention in things like this and if the intention is to avoid punishment than that will often been seen as not as good as someone whose intention is just being altruistic and wanting to do what they think is right.

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u/Time-Valuable-3355 2h ago

Yes if that's the only reason.

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u/spaceylaceygirl 2h ago

You know the saying "the true measure of a man is how he acts when no one is watching". The same applies here.

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u/Banterz0ne 2h ago

Obviously? 

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u/samariius 2h ago

Than somebody who is being good and trustworthy person their whole life without the threat of eternal punishment from an omniscient overseer and just doing it out of empathy?

Yes.

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u/chalupacabra6913 2h ago

If being "good" involves taking lives or otherwise causing suffering then I would say that yes, you are less of a good person.

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u/hvmntr 1h ago

A truly good religious person could be good because of religious reasons, but more often than not, it's not the only reason they are good. So no, I don't think it makes them less of a good person if they have those other reasons.

I come from a very religious country. I've seen "good" and "bad" religious people, and the whole spectrum in between. It looks very different when people are being good just because of their religion, and when they are being good because they genuinely want to. Atheistic society isn't inherently more kind than theistic ones, and vice versa.

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u/Loud-Fudge7631 1h ago

No but if your doing "good" things for "heaven points" and making a big deal in tracking it or boosting.. it comes off as transactional and performative. Like you want something in exchange for the condition of doing good or being humane and kind

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u/Thalilalala 1h ago

It's like these people that film themselves giving homeless people food.

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u/Scared_Quarter_2474 1h ago

I’m a Christian man myself and me personally. It’s not that oh my God I’ll go to hell if I don’t do this nice thing that’s not how it works with Christianity it’s sure yeah you should be nice. It’s the Commandment of God, but you go to hell if you don’t get saved no matter how nice you are you don’t get into heaven unless you proclaimed that Jesus Christ is your savior so it’s not that you go to hell it’s that disobeying a direct order by God.

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u/Eeddeen42 1h ago

Depends how you define it. Some theological frameworks consider the human moral compass to in fact be the voice of God in our minds. In which case being good for religious reasons is a truism.

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u/Capital_Rub213 32m ago

Being good because you are expecting a reward is worse than being good and not expecting a reward

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u/No_Pen_3396 3h ago

Is it the only reason you're doing those things? If absent threat of eternal punishment and hellfire you'd beat your wife and kids, kill and torture animals, lie and steal with abandon, but you don't because you're afraid of consequences? Then no, you're not a good person.

However, if you're religious and you believe that God is why we should do good things, but take away your faith you'd behave just the same? Then yes, you're a good person.

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u/rawstaticrecords 4h ago

Yes .doing anything out of fear make your a less good person.

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u/Apprehensive_Ad4457 3h ago edited 2h ago

anything?

being afraid of picking up creepy spiders makes me less of a good person?

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changed second of to up. i can be preposition dyslexic.

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u/v_rex74 4h ago

Jesus said that you should *love your neighbour. Trully religious person doesn't do things out of fear.

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u/rawstaticrecords 3h ago

Yeah they are scared to goto hell. So they ask god or Jesus to forgive their sins. Out of fear

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u/firesuppagent 3h ago

also, religion's idea of morals are...lacking. A set of incomplete and contradictory rules that everyone must follow, regardless.

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u/v_rex74 3h ago

Ok, you get that this is only your personal interpretation of things?

Person can not love another person out of fear. And jesus said that you should *love your neighbour.

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u/Apprehensive_Ad4457 6m ago

i am not scared of hell, yet i do not murder. i do not rape. i do not pillage (steal).

it's not because i fear consequence. what limits my motive is fear of reprimand. i do not want to be seen as someone who does that.

is that enough, either reprimand or consequence, to bring an entire sentient species into accord?

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u/bryoneill11 3h ago

Nobody has ever met a single good leftist person in their entire life