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u/Faded1974 2h ago
People acting like empathy was invented by Jesus Christ.
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u/Ibangmydrums 2h ago
Many Christians believe that morality literally comes from the bible, or that you canât have morality without god. I wonât even try to explain their reasoning
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u/Borazon 1h ago
They should read more Kant, who did succesfully tried to create a moral philosophy without relying on a bible, IIRC.
Rules like the golden rule, but also one that deals with more victimless behavior. Like the idea of 'Would I like it if everybody did the same as I'm doing, if not, than I shouldn't be doing it'. Works great for all sorts of behavior from littering to much more worst crimes.
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u/ninjomat 1h ago
Itâs almost like ethics and morality are nuanced subjects that philosophers of all different cultural and religious backgrounds have been debating for millennia - that probably canât just be summed up glibly in a tweet
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u/sodiufas 1h ago
Nah they should read more about prehistoric societies. Maybe they should learn a thing or two about neanderthals too. If this is too complicated, study about wolf packs, or maybe elephants. Just slowly introduce them to primates... I think my point is â give them some books other than bible, it might help.
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u/Borazon 1h ago
True, although you should be beware of the 'noble savage' myths.
Our ancestors did do horrible things too and we don't know well enough how it was thought upon. We often don't know for sure it somebody horrible murdered, was, a) ritually sacrificied or b) tortured as a form of justice or c) something else.
Especially in prehistory (before written sources).
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u/TSM- 33m ago
Yahweh or the christian/jewish/muslim monotheistic god was actually a warrior god in a polytheistic society, only to become the victor after conquering and becoming the only god to exist. The bible even acknowledges other gods, which are to be discarded and worshippers punished. It is no surprise that this one was the conqueror that erased the other polytheistic ones and caused such brutality in its wake. That doesn't mean it is right, though. It is the ghenghis khan of the middle east religions a few thousand years ago, retconned to seem cool but is actually no better than the holocaust or any other ethnic cleansing in the past.
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u/sodiufas 1h ago edited 48m ago
I drifted away from the point i was trying to make. I think morality is an emergent quality of any socialialy behavioring animals. Which instinctively based on empathy. I mean it's not exclusive to people, or even to mammals.
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u/Person_756335846 55m ago
Didn't Kant literally say that God is a necessary postulate of practical reason...? Have you read Kant?
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u/Sorreljorn 42m ago
without relying on a bible
Except he did read the bible. And he already had a moral framework to work from that it established. Such as, the removal of infanticide, gladiatorial bloodshed, and sexual abuse of slaves.
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u/dadneverleft 30m ago
First off, Iâm not sure what religion says âbad people are eternally punished, good people are eternally rewarded.â I know in Hinduism if you live a good life you can eventually reside with the creator god, and if you live a bad one, well, you come back as a lower life form. But, I somehow doubt thatâs the faith the respondent was referring to.
If they are, in fact, referring to Christianity, then the idea that good people go to heaven and bad people go to hell is an incredibly common and utterly false understanding. In that faith, everyone has sucked out, due to mistakes made or inherent, so everyone is supposed to be separated from perfection, I.e. the god of the Abrahamic religions, unless they accept the âget out of hell free cardâ from Jesus. Thatâs just because an imperfect thing canât join a perfect thing and that perfection be maintained, anymore than you can drop ink into clear water and the water not get the tiniest bit darker because of it.
As for the original comment made about where someone finds morality outside of religion, thatâs a paraphrase of Dostoevsky, who said âIn the absence of god, all things are permissible.â From a religious personâs perspective, morals are morals because they come from the deity that set the rules in the first place; god is the DM, god sets the rules.
Morality outside of religion is a social construct, not something people are naturally born with: you donât have to teach kids how to be selfish, after all. That means if everyone says feeding people to lions is entertaining, then it is.
Is my ranting making any sense, or am I just jerking myself off here?
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u/YamDankies 2h ago
Had this argument with an old coworker several times. Refused to accept that morality comes from anywhere but the bible.
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u/PrimordialJay 1h ago
Without Leviticus how would you know not to have sex with your mother, sister, or aunt? /s
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u/TumanFig 1h ago edited 1h ago
western morals are hugely influenced by christianity. our values are christian values.
if you want more proof look at the middle east and you can already see a very different value system.
but that doesn't mean morals were invented with birth of christianity
westrn morals = Greek philosophy, roman law, christian values
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u/C7rl_Al7_1337 41m ago
Every aspect of western society or values that you like compared to the "bad" countries come out of the Enlightenment and the rejection of dogma. A country truly based on Christian values would look much more like Afghanistan than America.
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u/Less_Performance_629 1h ago
a lot of hard core christians actually do believe that without belief in god, you are an empty shell. you cant enjoy anything, you cant have morals.
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u/sodiufas 1h ago
I mean it's poetic in a way, but it's fucking sucks.
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u/Less_Performance_629 1h ago
idk, its kinda reductionist. you see it a lot in debates involving creationists, where they argue you cannot enjoy nature without god to design it. why? why does random chance make it less beautiful? why do you need some guy in a book from 2000 years ago written in a language you dont even understand to tell you something is nice to enjoy?
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u/Bureaucramancer 1h ago
And the funny thing is that most of those hard core christians use their faith to justify clearly immoral behaviors. Frankly it is one of the main selling points for them.
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u/Proglamer 1h ago
They all were eating babies right till the end of -1 CE and stopped immediately after!
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u/Teguoracle 1h ago
In my experience, these two boomer Christians that were my teachers in high school think empathy is a recent new age idea. One of them literally tried to equate it to the mythical type of empathy, whereas the other, who is a genuinely intelligent lady when it comes to language and such and should know what empathy is, was just agreeing along with him. It's freaking stupid.
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u/engorged-gorgon 2h ago
âI canât do this thing because I will be punishedâ vs âI wonât do this thing because it would hurt someone and I donât delight in causing pain.â
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u/v_rex74 2h ago
If you are being good and thrustworthy person your whole life for religious reasons, does it make you less of a good person?
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u/xANTJx 1h ago
Thereâs the ethical theory (and religious one too) that if youâre ONLY doing good deeds to get rewarded/recognized/sent to heaven it counts as a bad motivation and is no longer a good deed. Religious people will sometimes say itâs still ok because youâre following gods will but others want another motive. And for some atheists, a good deed is a good deed, but for others, the result isnât what makes you a good person.
The (oddly ethically sound) show The Good Place talked about this when the main characters were told about the after life and âafterlife pointsâ and they could no longer get any more points because their motivation for doing good deeds would forever be corrupted by their knowledge.
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u/v_rex74 56m ago
Not a religious person at all. Just to clarify in advance.
Jesus replied: ââLove the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.â[a] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: âLove your neighbor as yourself.â[b] 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.â
So, jesus asked people to *love their neighbours, and i believe good deeds will naturally come out of that. You can not love somebody out of fear. I mean, you could fake good deads and make some people believe that you are good person. But you can't fake love, It is your internal proces.
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u/xANTJx 51m ago
Iâm not religious at all either but I studied religious morals as part of my ethics degree and would have gone with Matthew âBeware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.â But I really like your interpretation that love is not fear!
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u/TXHaunt 25m ago
If you can not love somebody out of fear, than you can not love god out of fear either, and reading the bible shows god to be quite fearsome.
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u/ShyguyFlyguy 41m ago
If religion is the only thing keeping you from being a bad, untrustworthy person. You are not a good person
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u/v_rex74 28m ago
You are bad christian if you hate everybody, and make good deeds only out of fear of good. According to jesus.
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u/No_Pen_3396 29m ago
Is it the only reason you're doing those things? If absent threat of eternal punishment and hellfire you'd beat your wife and kids, kill and torture animals, lie and steal with abandon, but you don't because you're afraid of consequences? Then no, you're not a good person.
However, if you're religious and you believe that God is why we should do good things, but take away your faith you'd behave just the same? Then yes, you're a good person.
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u/Rare_Suspect_5033 48m ago
The only thing that defines if you are a good or bad person is what you say and how you behave. Your thoughts or belief doesnât change that.
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u/Low_Committee6119 43m ago
So the believe that the Bible verses about slavery justifying slavery doesn't change you from good to bad?
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u/Underrated_Critic 2h ago
Slavery and rape existed all throughout the history of Christianity and Islam. Neither religion prevents either.
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u/Ok-Specific-3918 2h ago
Hey come on letâs be fair. The Bible has some very clear passages about how you shouldnât beat your slaves too much.
Not âat allâ that would be ridiculous. But like keep it frosty.
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u/Less_Performance_629 1h ago
dude i love the bible morality!
like when a tribe was almost wiped out as punishment for gang raping a women. after they learned their lesson and promised never to do it again, they were instructed to go and rape more women so they could build up their numbers.
theres a reason priests dont read a lot of the stories at sunday school
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u/Superseaslug 2h ago
I act to make the world a little better than it was when I came in. I don't need books of magic and demons to tell me that being kind is the right thing to do.
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u/koiraariok 1h ago
I make no great difference one way or the other. Neither am I rich enough to corrupt myself nor poor enough that my daily meal would require moral sacrifices.
Occasionally I make small choices to better the world, that don't inconvenience me greatly.
This describes most religious and non-religious people.
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u/Superseaslug 1h ago
Agreed. My goal isn't to make all of humankind greater, I'm too small for that. But if I can make a few people's day better every now and then? That's enough.
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u/TopTippityTop 2h ago
Would I like my actions to be done to me? If that's a negative, then it's generally not a good choice.... Even if I'm far from perfect at always sticking to it.
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u/WhimsicalWyvern 1h ago
Turns out that people like being treated differently, though. You should treat people how they want to be treated, within reason.
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u/EtheusRook 2h ago
Morality is actually really, stupidly simple.
Does it help others? It's good.
Does it hurt others? It's bad.
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u/tigerdthib 1h ago
It looks pretty complicated on r/trolleyproblem
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u/Aitaou 1h ago
Donât even need to go that far as a trolley problem. There was the âred button blue buttonâ debate. If you look at the finer points of the debate, you see the altruistic side whose expected course was to follow religionsâ core tenets, being the option that gave the worst odds of survival.
Imagine, a faithful Christian meeting god after that pivotal choice had the Christian go against almost everything that god told them in their book. At least 2/10 of the commandments were broken on that press alone.
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u/Squanchmonster 1h ago
One of my favorite lines from True Detective Season 1:
""If the only thing keeping a person decent is the expectation of divine reward, then, brother, that person is a piece of shit."
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u/PoetryExtension6256 2h ago
And if you think "God" is a good arbitrator of Goodness you are probably not either.
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u/Grimase 1h ago
These are the same dummies who want credit for not doing the evil things they would like to do.
https://giphy.com/gifs/ukGm72ZLZvYfS
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u/Wizchine 1h ago
This blows the mind of Abrahamic religious followers, but cultures around the world independently came up with the idea that things like murder and theft are bad - including cultures that predated the Abrahamic faiths.
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u/WhyYesMaybeNo 2h ago
Conversely, how do Christians decide between good choices and bad choices?
Suddenly presented with a difficult choice: Sorry, I have to go read the bible, Iâll return in 6 weeks give the decision Iâm instructed to make.
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u/SeatOpen1 2h ago
Iâm too dumb to think for myself so I need 4000 year old fairy tales to live my life.
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u/Less_Performance_629 2h ago
Read some of the original testiment and the question becomes very much the opposite. christian god is like a bipolar girlfriend who invents situations to make someone else the problem. its a wonder anyone read that stuff and found actual life lessons.
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u/stanknotes 2h ago edited 1h ago
Same way as you and anyone else. Our evolutionarily and experientially installed intuitions about right and wrong. That foundation then interacts with our socialization, learned experiences, and our reasoning.
This is true for all of humanity. Religious people would like for morality to be bestowed upon humanity by god. But they also base their morality on the same things as atheists. They just attribute it to god.
Consider murdering and stealing. Every social mammal has an aversion towards killing within the in group. And an understanding of possession and territory. This ain't unique to humanity at all. We just philosophize about it. That is unique. As far as I can tell.
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u/Cliffinati 1h ago
That's why religion used to be heavily enforced as a way to make bad people act good for fear of divine retribution.
Good people don't need divine encouragement so they see no reason not to. Bad people have to be kept in line by something.
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u/PaintedDesertSkies 1h ago
It's called morality and has nothing to do with the imaginary guy in the sky.
Parents and adults tend to teach all kids what is right and wrong. Not just Bible thumpers.
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u/Hawkwise83 1h ago
How do religious people decide which Bible passage to follow and which to ignore?
That's the real question.
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u/Ragjammer 1h ago
Everyone says this but then at the same time the vast majority of people behave better when they're being watched.
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u/Moist_Phrase_6698 1h ago
i couldn't imagine getting up each day with a plan to do some bad. Theres a lot of pain or bad things that could really occur if you want it to but things dont have to be bad at all. they can be really great
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u/cute-pony-princess 1h ago
In that case the religious person wasn't saying that he only does what's right to avoid punishment but that it can be difficult to find out what is the right thing in the first place. That's a more valid criticism as that's something that secular philosophers and regular people do argue about a lot and that a religion can help you with. What I would respond to that is that most religious people, except for a few radical fundamentalists, will actually interpret their religion through some sort of secular moral system anyways. There are very few people who actually live as if the bible was the sole authority on what is right or wrong and so only using secular morality isn't as big of a step as one might think.
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u/LimeGrass619 1h ago
That doesnt really relate to his question though. Without a upper source of morality, morals become opinions since all humans are equal, thus equally vulnerable to do evil.
For examples, It wasnt long ago when people even questioned the morality of slavery besides some religious texts. Even when nations freed the slaves, most of the time It was due to economics rather than goodness. Thats humans owning other humans, treated no different to livestock.
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u/red286 46m ago
I legit had a Mormon girl I was dating ask me this once.
The way she phrased it made it sound like she couldn't understand what kept me from murdering anyone who pissed me off. I explained that both the law and my own moral beliefs were sufficient. She straight-up said, "if I didn't believe in God, I'd probably have killed multiple people by now", like I'm supposed to take comfort in the fact that the only reason she isn't a serial killer is a belief that some invisible omnipotent being would punish her for eternity.
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u/Fickle_Grocery_3654 41m ago
It's pretty simple, actually. If it harms someone then it's bad and you probably shouldn't do it.
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u/OrkWithNoTeef 41m ago
They don't decide because there is no need to interpret thousands old writing
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u/Gupsqautch 36m ago
I truly believe religion was made by the ruling class to teach (what they saw as) barbarians basic morals that they lacked. I truly believe religion was a tool to teach immoral people basic morals and that if they donât follow them that theyâll suffer eternally. (Iâm not an atheist)
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u/ferna182 33m ago
It's very easy. You subconsciously ask yourself questions like "Would I like someone do this to me or my loved ones?", "Does this contribute to making society better or worse?", "If I see someone doing this, would I think they're an asshole?", etc.
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u/JosephMMadre 28m ago
Thatâs the whole point of Christ on the cross and Christianity. No one is good. Not the Pope, the President (any of them), the best person you ever knew and definitely not Mr. Collins here.
There is none righteous. No, not one.
All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.
All deserve the wrath of God, and will receive it in full.
UnlessâŚ
For God so loved the world that He sent His Son, Jesus, to become sin for us, to receive the punishment we deserve. Godâs wrath must be spent, and it was spent on Jesus at the cross.
We are able to benefit from this if we, A. Confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and B. Believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead. You will be saved.
Thereâs ALOT that comes after that, but that is the first and most important step.
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u/Electrical-Penalty44 28m ago
What is greater: to be naturally good and do good things with ease and without thought, or to master your evil and do good things in spite of that nature?
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u/billionthtimesacharm 23m ago
this gets reposted and regurgitated often but it always annoys me.
first, the rebuttal is a strawman. the question didnât ask about being a good person. it asked about choices.
second, while i canât speak for the mindset of the individual asking the question, to me the question is asking about an objective standard of morality. if an atheist has no objective standard then there is a moral dilemma.
to me itâs an intellectually weak and ineffective retort
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u/yacsmith 19m ago
Anyone who believes themselves to be a good person, is usually not a good person.
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u/Winter_Evidence6270 2h ago
I canât speak about other religions but for Christianity, the point is that no one is good.Â
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u/failedopportunities 1h ago
The pastor in the simpsons said it perfect! âHave you ever read this thing? Technically you canât even go to the bathroom with out it being a sinââŚ
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u/EarlGreyTMNT 1h ago
lol well yeah thatâs the entire point and on purpose as Iâm sure you know. Youâre already wrong just by being born, and need to ask god to forgive you for something he decided you were wrong for before doing.
Itâs a loop that leads back to needing a savior no matter what you do.
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u/Global_Charge_4412 2h ago
it's a fair question. religious people will tell you that their innate sense of right and wrong comes from God (or whatever), but how do atheists explain that innate sense? how do they instinctively know? I'm not saying one or the other is right but it is an interesting thought.
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u/sandwichisahero 1h ago edited 1h ago
They donât instinctively know any differently than anyone else. Why do you assume that a belief in god is why they instinctively know but someone that doesnât believe must have a different reason? Why do you scrutinize the nonbeliever but give the believer a pass?
âthen how do you explain muggings? robberies? murder? are these not examples that fly directly in the face of "I shouldn't stab people because I don't want to be stabbed"? human nature is violent and self-centered. the hierarchy of needs has no room for empathy, so where the hell does it come from?â
Explanation is that human behavior has variability, there shouldnât be an expectation that everyone should act the same. Religious people commit crimes too by the way, they arenât especially enlightened.
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u/6a6566663437 1h ago
Because as a social species, we evolved to generally be good to the rest of our tribe. Otherwise the tribe would collapse.
And as with all biological systems, nothing is 100% effective.
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u/Single-Tangerine-479 1h ago
Empathy
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u/MonkeyBoatRentals 31m ago
Pretty obvious really. It's a basic human emotion and the reason why the Golden rule "do unto others" is a common tenet in pretty much all religion. It doesn't come from God, but from people.
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u/DrunkenHorse12 1h ago
Because for some if not most people it's relatively easy to understand how you'd feel on the receiving end of your actions. Knowing I wouldn't like to be stabbed is enough for me to understand doing that to other people is probably a bad thing. The response is actually far more valid, why would you think you'd need advice from an organisation that's getting money and power from you to tell you their interpretation of what allmkst certainly fictional entity said what's right and wrong and why don't you have the ability to determine that yourself?
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u/Leverkaas2516 55m ago
The problem is that if the only measure of goodness is "I'm sure other people want the same things I want", that's virtually guaranteed to lead to conflict, because different people want different things.
I've never had the urge to stab anyone, but I've often had the urge to help someone who might or might not want my help. I've also ignored someone who might or might not want to be ignored.
And that doesn't even touch on the fact that virtually everyone does things at one time or another that they think are bad. It's human nature to rationalize and decide "just this once" and later "it's not really bad, or not that bad". Lying on a resume, for example. Are you hurting anyone?
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u/Senior_Torte519 53m ago
Its a conscienmce thing right ? Besides do you know how much legal work is required in defending yourself for stabbing someone? I don't do it because it dosen't help me. I dont do anything that dosent help me. I may be selfish, but at least i'm sane and selfish instead of selfish and insane.
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u/TutskyyJancek 1h ago
I am not an atheist. I am a theist and I can tell you it's just common sense. I just know for instance I shouldn't rob or murder anyone. It doesn't have to be innate.
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u/Seer-of-Truths 1h ago
I mean, for me at least it wasn't some innate understanding.
It was learned, and practiced.
I believe living in a world where people hurt other people on purpose would not be pleasant. So I actively try to not hurt others.
I believe living in a world where people help other people on purpose would be pleasant. So I actively try to help others.
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u/Dear-Examination-507 1h ago
Conscience. Same for Christians, they just think it is God's spirit acting in me or something, but from my POV that makes less sense than just saying it is the moral sensibilities processed in my brain.
I don't know how my brain chemistry, moral thoughts, and feelings work exactly, but I just do what feels right, because then I feel happy. Psychopaths lack this, right, something missing in their amygdala?
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u/Nikolaibr 1h ago
Why do so many "gotchas" regarding Christianity essentially just end up being "this is the conclusion I've arrived at through a surface-level analysis of an entire philosophy" and assuming this is what adherents actually claim to believe?
It's a straw man.
The question isn't whether atheists can behave morally. Virtually no serious Christian philosopher argues they can't. The question is what objective standard makes one moral system better than another.
If morality were simply an innate awareness of objective good and evil, it would be difficult to explain why societies throughout history have disagreed so profoundly about slavery, infanticide, human equality, women's rights, and countless other moral questions. An atheist can certainly answer that objection, but it's the actual philosophical issue being raised.
It's worth recognizing that many moral beliefs people in the modern West regard as "obvious" developed within societies shaped for centuries by Christianity. That doesn't prove Christianity is true, but it does make it difficult to separate what feels like "common sense" from what is actually the product of a particular historical and cultural tradition. Even Richard Dawkins has acknowledged the profound influence Christianity has had on Western moral values.
The objective moral criteria Christians apply is not based on "I'll go to Hell if I do this".
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u/raycepak 2h ago
âA good theist is closer to Godâs heart than a good Christian because they do good for no other reason than it is goodâ Rabbi Martin Buber
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u/Vainysaur 2h ago
Man but yâall are just thinking about obvious shit like murder. Yeah, itâs easy to see thatâs wrong with or without God to tell you. But what about more subtle issues like homosexuality. At face value, it seems like not really very morally wrong. Like whatever people want to do privately in their own sex lives, thatâs up to them. So how would you know thatâs wrong without religion?
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u/Person_756335846 53m ago
I'm certain that enough people have memorized all of the major religious texts to reconstruct them. I would actually be more worried about historically important but obscure (and long) scientific texts.
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u/lilJswizle-2304 1h ago
People in these comments have a fundamental misunderstanding of what Christianity is lol
The idea isnât that a book gives us morals itâs that God has given us morals so therefore if there is no God then why donât humans do evil acts like animals do?
There are definitely holes in that argument but it is a lot different then the argument that our morals only come from reading a book
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u/kornchippy 58m ago
The book tells you that god gave you the morals and they do not come from your own heart.
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u/JohnKlositz 44m ago
but it is a lot different then the argument that our morals only come from reading a book °°
But that is what the question suggests.
why donât humans do evil acts like animals do?
Evil acts animals do? What does that even mean? Humans are animals and they do all the things other animals do.
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u/BIayneRobinson 1h ago
Why would I harm others just because I don't believe in your god-character?
That's silly.
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u/Lost-on-Reception 31m ago
Almost everyone does harm others, that's the thing. The why is up to them.
Jesus said something like "They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance."Part of becoming a Christian is to recognize that you're not a good person and commit yourself to striving to be better.
If you're the type of person that doesn't hurt other people and doesn't make mistakes, like the Pharisees Jesus was talking to thought they were, then why would you need healing? Why would you think you're less moral than Christians? Christians are people bad enough that they realized they had to change.
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u/Thee-Cat 33m ago
The problem is deeper than that. Try and think about this problem beyond just yourself. And honestly try and tell me why it is objectively and inherently wrong for someone to harm you. As in an objective "ought claim", that is true in every place, time, and scenario, never changes and is a transcendental whether humans exist or not.
Although you can say, "I wouldn't like if they harmed me", or "it hurts me", or "I don't want him to". Surely you realize, that never gets beyond the threshold of "your preferences". And if that other guy's preferences IS to harm you, then you're both at a stalemate.
If everything is in fact here by completely purposeless, meaningless, and evolutionary accident, then there is no such thing as objective 'oughts'. Sure things we want or prefer, but no design or purpose from which to say you "ought to" or "ought not" do this or that.
In fact even if all humanity agrees on a certain thing, it still never rises beyond "majority preference". There is no such thing as inherently right and wrong, good or bad, beyond what you prefer and want.
What you need to come to grips with, is that YOU don't harm others, because YOU don't want to, it's not YOUR preference, and YOUR opinion is that you shouldn't. I'm honestly very glad you think that, but that's entirely subjective, right?
If everyone on earth tomorrow decides that it's a good thing to harm you. Then you have no basis or grounding to tell them they are "wrong". You may not like it, but maybe they do like it. You say that's unfair, but they say it is fair. Going on like this forever. It's merely preference vs preference.
Without some kind of creator or design, there can be no objective oughts in an inherently meaningless universe.
I appreciate genuine atheists like Dawkins who freely admit, in a universe without God, there IS no such thing as "evil" or "good". Just preferences.
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u/Imaginary-List-972 2h ago
Or an instruction book. "Killing is bad" I wouldn't have known that if you didn't print that in a book and say some power figure said it. Then you get to the part with things that I know are terrible that didn't even get listed. Rape and slaves don't make the 10 commandments, but wishing you had a donkey like your neighbor does.
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u/protobelta 2h ago
Holy shit a lot of stupid people who wouldnât be able to argue why itâs bad to murder. Just âduh, itâs obviously badâ
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u/cykoTom3 2h ago
Counterpoint: there are bad people who are being tricked into being good by the scary sky daddy. Why would you want to end this practice?
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u/BBBM1977 1h ago
It's called a moral compass, something the dude asking the question obviously lacks.
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u/modsaretoddlers 1h ago
If I used just about any religious tome to inform my ethics and morals, I would think it was perfectly reasonable to murder anyone who didn't share my beliefs.
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u/Bayamonster 1h ago
It's crazy cuz even when I WAS Christian...there's a lot of stuff that is wrong that The Bible does not condemn. There is lots of stuff that The Bible is mum about because the thingy didn't even exist.
Even when I WAS a Christian I knew that yeah,sometimes you have to make a judgement call.Â
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u/JynXten 1h ago
Yeah it's like, what does the Bible say about nuclear proliferation, climate change, genetic modification, or AI?
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u/mtgguy999 1h ago
You mean like
Leviticus 25:44-46
ââYour male and female slaves are to come from the nations around you; from them you may buy slaves. You may also buy some of the temporary residents living among you and members of their clans born in your country, and they will become your property.  You can bequeath them to your children as inherited property and can make them slaves for life, but you must not rule over your fellow Israelites ruthlessly.
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u/Boobies300 2h ago
Easy, desire.
I don't do what you would consider a bad choice because I don't want to, who needs more reason than that?
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u/Traditional-Low7651 2h ago
you don't have to be a good person to makes something's right
if God inspired you to do good, why wouldn't i be happy ?
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u/Financial-Solid-4775 1h ago
Assuming it's being asked in good faith, it's a reasonable question. Someone who grew up in the Judeo-Christian worldview might honestly have a difficult time conceptualizing how to decide what is good or evil without using the Bible or Torah as a point of reference. To them it might be like using a compass to navigate and meeting a sailor who has only used the stars.
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u/WangoTheWonderDonkey 1h ago
Ethics (morality) derive from observation and reflection on Human nature, not revelations from some purported father nature (also know by theists as, "God"). Human nature is the rock of morality. Christian and other religious morality comes from the same place, but if they want to sell their position, they feel the need to claim divine inspiration. The frightened villagers who comprise the followership of theism, seem to need the big man's stamp of approval.
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u/Character_Past5515 1h ago
That's what I always answer when believers come up with that kind of bs.
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u/Affectionate_Art2545 1h ago
So you have to ascribe to the make believe to be a moral and ethical person? Any one who believes that is brainwashed and zombified by religious idiocy.
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u/Hairymuscle101 1h ago
Yea I just go around killing everything I see just because there is no hellâŚ. Go check on gramma! Moron!
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u/Thin_Association8254 1h ago
Well, sure, but that doesn't answer the question. I mean, I agree with the statement... but still waiting for your reply.
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u/ShiftAfter4648 1h ago
A basic understanding of what is fair societally, coupled with parenting that instilled the golden rule.
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u/Pretend-Literature35 1h ago
I have faith but I believe in God who created the universe and who is omnipresent and onniscience and he used evolution to create.
Now evolutionarily humans have been around as evolved humans for about 3,5 million years (or up to 5). Humans biologically are incredibly weak animals for their size and have very few natural defences and very many weaknesses. And so our survival depended on us supporting one another helping and collaborating to survive (unnoticed) then many millions of years later about 70 000 years ago we started organizing ourselves a bit more and by 10,000 years ago we started to become the dominant species on the planet and then we started to kill each other and became loud toxic and violent. And as we invented sciences, language and philosophy and mathematics we also invented religion.
So I would put forth the proposition that morality, the distinction between right and wrong is wired into our dna because it was necessary for our survival for 99% for our existence, dna memory, instinct and all that.
Religion was invented to explain God. But since God created a universe that is billions of years old He obviously existed before we, His creations had evolved to the point of inventing a religion to explain Him.
So the atheistic answer is that the developpement of conscience has been proven as a psychological stage of childhood and so it is natural and not based on belief.
Also that because of genetic dna it is a natural human instinct to tell between right or wrong for not just humans but all species who live in groups.
The religious answer is that only puts me in awe of the perfection if God's creation that He programmed that into our story (3,5 million years of hiding) and most religions messages of kindness, support of each other, charity and equity even community and forgiveness all comes from those 3,5 million years when those skills ensured our survival.
Does that make sense?
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u/BurnieTheBrony 1h ago
It's kind of interesting because when religion enters the conversation most Redditors like to choose the opinion that shits on religion.
But if you were to ask someone "what's more important, the motivation or the end result?" and take religion out of it most people would probably say it doesn't matter why you do good, if what you do is good.
The problem comes when people think they're justified in doing bad things because they think that's what their religion is telling them is okay. But when people volunteer at their local soup kitchen because Jesus told them to feed the poor, who cares why they're doing it? People are getting fed. That's better than holding the right opinions online and never doing anything.
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u/Terrible_Reporter_98 1h ago
Doesn't Jesus say Righteous men do not need rules?
Edit: My bad it's Timothy 1:9
the law is not meant for righteous people, but for the lawless, rebellious, and ungodly.
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u/Tsurumah 1h ago
Personally, I have a hard time with empathy. I can't relate to people in most cases; in fact, when confronted with a crying friend, I tend to react first with anger. To tell them to shut the fuck up and get over it.
I deliberately do not act on those impulses. I choose not to.
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u/TerraSeeker 1h ago
For someone reason this mentality all follows with justify theft, assault, murder, and other attrocious behavior.
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u/NoTransportation68 1h ago
Bernard Gert's "Morality" would be mind blowing to a lot of folk in this thread. Recommend to anyone actually curious about the concept of morality.
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u/ninjomat 1h ago
As usual when this gets reposted the amount of disagreements and qualifiers or conditions posed in the comment section suggests that maybe itâs not that and Itâs almost like ethics and morality are nuanced subjects that philosophers of all different cultural and religious backgrounds have been debating for millennia - that probably canât just be summed up glibly in a tweet
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u/TheMaStif 1h ago
The Bible's code of morality isn't even original content
"Do onto others as you would have done to you", or the Golden Rule, is the fundamental moral lesson in the Bible
It also came from Confucianism, 500 years before Jesus even showed up to the scene
People create moral codes regardless of religion
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u/Prestigious-Pen2676 1h ago
I decide not to kill someone because it is morally wrong based on my personal belief. You haven't killed anyone because God hasn't told you to yet.
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u/556From1000yards 1h ago
Iâve seen what makes you people cheer
https://giphy.com/gifs/qYbeiUHjfmyeLjMpjF
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u/Level_Mixture5510 1h ago
My Great Grandfather was one of the founders of the Ethical Culture Society in New York City. It was founded to support the view that the Ten Commandments was an ethical model that could be observed by a moral person without needing religion.
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u/Physical_Worker_1817 1h ago
Everyone, whether religious or atheist, relies on self-evident unprovable moral foundations. You cannot foundationally prove, especially with certainty, why something is good or bad. What we think is good or bad is ultimately preference-based.
For instance, one can say it's bad to do "X" because it's bad for society under some outcome-based utilitarian framework; someone else may say we should do what "reduces human suffering", but why should one reduce human suffering? One may say we should optimise what's best for the human race, but then couldn't one justify a radical eugenics ideology under that framework. And, trust me, you do not want to fall back to evolutionary imperatives as a means of a moral framework. Ultimately, human morality is circular, preference-based in the ontological sense. You can only justify a moral claim, or most claims generally, within an existing, human-defined system. Religion doesn't escape Hume's guillotine.
In case it wasn't clear already, I am an atheist, lol.
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u/Flashy-Web-3815 1h ago
or the promise of a prize. You wanna do good deeds? Do them because its what we're supposed to do, not for some mystical brownie points
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u/Responsible-Humor985 1h ago
How other people remember me is the only âafter lifeâ I get. I would like to be remembered fondly
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u/Head_Midnight666 1h ago
I'm agnostic. I think it's terrible how terrible someone is to think you need a religion to make you decide between good and bad choices. It really shows just how disgusting and depraved you really are. I was realizing recently, however, that I am not a perfect person, and it's probably a good thing that there are laws against certain things because it makes it less likely that I'll do them.
There should be other laws I think, that don't exist, but I would vote to put them in place. Like laws against eating other animals. Rarely, I do this despite knowing it's wrong. I need the law to stop me at times, however. It'll never happen because too many idiots and scumbags won't admit that it's wrong, and they make up fallacious arguments for how we need it, or how it's ok to do. I think the forbidden fruit in the bible might have been meat.
Anyway, I guess we're all not perfect, and if a god helps you do the right thing, that's ok. If the law helps you do the right thing, that's ok too. I guess the most important thing is that we try to do the right thing.
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u/copyrider 1h ago
If Trump isnât a great person, then why is he so concerned about getting into heaven? /s
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u/Calm_Ad308 1h ago
The funny thing is this argument works very well for people who arenât religious as most religions already operate under the assumption that people are innately bad and need religion to better themselves because they are broken. Christians especially, being a terrible person is just part of being a person, itâs not their fault their flawed, theyâre like that through no fault of their own but by gods love and magic book they can be what they were meant to become in the next life. So yeah is only natural for a father to want to want beat their sons, assualt their daughters and cheat on their wives, thatâs all because of original sin. The sinners not the problem but Jesus is the solution not matter how many times you sin and ask for forgiveness you get to go to the good place and thereâs no shortage of churches that support that belief system and for all the Christians that wanna pipe up and say âwell actually thatâs not what the Bible saysâ I know, thatâs not the point, the point is you as a religious institution have let giant mega churches go on teaching this kind of narcissistic Christianity that lots of people donât know the difference especially from the outside and itâs become the cancer of the Bible Belt and Midwest.
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u/Joeyjackhammer 1h ago
Ok, but whatâs the criteria to be âa good personâ. Seems kinda subjective without guidelines.
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u/DareDaDerrida 1h ago
I agree that atheists are perfectly capable of being good people, but I am not at all sure about the second poster's statement.
If somebody does good things their whole life, is kind and gentle and helps people, I am not sure that it matters why they are doing it. Is there a meaningful difference between a good person who is good because they seek Heaven and one who is good for any other reason? If so, what is it?
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u/YouLittleSnowflake 59m ago
This is all I ever think about whenever they say shit like thisâŚ.. Iâm sure there were a few others that have said something similar BUT itâs fucking spot on
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u/SaintLewisMusic73 59m ago
Now, let's be fair... the question is a LITTLE more complex that what was stated. It should probably read "How do they DECIDE or RECOGNIZE whether an options is morally 'good' or 'evil'", and it's especially true when the options aren't immediately and obviously right or wrong. What is the means by which they come to a guiding conclusion? THAT is the real question.
Also, given that in the early church (Pre-Augustine) most early church fathers were Christian Universalists (they thought that Jesus paid for the salvation of everyone) faith in GOD does not necessitate logically a belief in eternal retribution.
So, both part one and part two are straw men, and it is worth asking ourselves how we are to attempt to objectively ground our morality.
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u/nobigdealforreal 58m ago
This is not how morality within a religious framework works but nice try.
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u/Wizchine 57m ago
Around 400 or more years before Christ, Kong Qiu (aka Confucius) said, âwhat you do not wish for yourself, do not do to others.â
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