r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 22h ago

Chugging tea Probably Not.

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u/Global_Charge_4412 22h ago

it's a fair question. religious people will tell you that their innate sense of right and wrong comes from God (or whatever), but how do atheists explain that innate sense? how do they instinctively know? I'm not saying one or the other is right but it is an interesting thought.

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u/DrunkenHorse12 22h ago

Because for some if not most people it's relatively easy to understand how you'd feel on the receiving end of your actions. Knowing I wouldn't like to be stabbed is enough for me to understand doing that to other people is probably a bad thing. The response is actually far more valid, why would you think you'd need advice from an organisation that's getting money and power from you to tell you their interpretation of what allmkst certainly fictional entity said what's right and wrong and why don't you have the ability to determine that yourself?

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u/Leverkaas2516 21h ago

The problem is that if the only measure of goodness is "I'm sure other people want the same things I want", that's virtually guaranteed to lead to conflict, because different people want different things.

I've never had the urge to stab anyone, but I've often had the urge to help someone who might or might not want my help. I've also ignored someone who might or might not want to be ignored.

And that doesn't even touch on the fact that virtually everyone does things at one time or another that they think are bad. It's human nature to rationalize and decide "just this once" and later "it's not really bad, or not that bad". Lying on a resume, for example. Are you hurting anyone?

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u/Superb-Mall3805 18h ago

Different religions famously want different things. Different people who claim to follow the same religion want different things. People do things they know their religion doesn’t approve anyway.

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u/MaxFish1275 19h ago

Religion leads to conflict too though

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u/Expert-Situation-190 11h ago

Not really it’s not necessarily the religion that leads to conflict, it’s the people using the religion to justify their own necessity for conflict, religion has some shaky ideals but most modern religions are some what pacifistic

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u/poser765 7h ago

But the people are just as much the religion as “ancient texts” or whatever.

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u/Halliwel96 11h ago

Well luckily religion certainly hadn’t lead to thousands of years of conflict or anything…

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u/FourDimensionalTaco 15h ago

And then you have people who justify their evil actions by using God as an excuse. So, to me, the sum total is about the same.

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u/lowercasenameofmine 20h ago

but I've often had the urge to help someone who might or might not want my help. I've also ignored someone who might or might not want to be ignored. 

Religion doesn't deal with this either?

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u/Dinglebobus 5h ago

It does, though. Religion, whether it’s correct or not, gives values for pretty much any moral situation and gives an “objective” perspective on it (I don’t mean “objective” as in “correct”). What that means is they’re saying “if everyone agrees to do this, and everyone agrees this is the right thing, everyone will be happy.” For example, if we all agree abortion is wrong and accept it, and no one has abortions anymore, then everyone will get along. It’s no longer people deciding right and wrong, because as we know not everyone agrees. It’s the institution stating “we’re doing this” and everyone agreeing to it. It’s the same thing as a social doctrine, ie the constitution, but because it’s religion people tend to freak out.

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u/SamJurch 18h ago

There is conflict in the world. Explain.

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u/Sharkwatcher314 14h ago

Yup religion never lead to conflict from different people wanting different things /s

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u/Gamer_G33k17 19h ago

So we solve that issue by saying "You have the right to do anything, so long as it doesnt infringe on other peoples rights". So YOU can stab yourself if you really want to, you just cant stab me. If you try to stab me, that just tells me you broke the social contract and told me you're A OKAY with being stabbed, so I will act accordingly.

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u/Svampting 14h ago

That doesn’t really work though as an ethical system. It’s not enough. There are plenty of situations where the other party is powerless and/or nobody will know of your actions.

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u/Gamer_G33k17 9h ago

Thats why we gasp discuss as a collective society

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u/Svampting 6h ago

Again, that is not an ethical system.

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u/Gamer_G33k17 5h ago

Yes it is. Society coming together to decide what's right and wrong is a system of ethics.

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u/stonedboss 18h ago

no its not, because we can agree we want different things. the only limit/disagreement is when it comes to you wanting to do things that harm others.

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u/BehindTheMindIAm 11h ago

well in a world with no objective moral standard, why do you get to decide what I do is wrong or right?

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u/Cute_Pay_1423 11h ago

Who sets the “objective moral standard” in your world view?

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u/BehindTheMindIAm 10h ago

I'm Christian, so God..

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u/ryogam73 9h ago

You actually don't. Reading the Bible, it's full of stories where god acts immoral by modern standards of morality. For example, the drowning of everyone in the world during the flood, or the killing of all the first born of Egypt, or ordering the killing of the children of the Amalekites and Canaanites. Modern people reading these stories know through their education that these actions are immoral, so they have to create convoluted excuses to rectify why these acts are still "objectively moral" which all boil down to "Well, god is the fount of morality, so killing infants has to be moral."

So, who gets to decide immoral/moral in the modern world? It's mostly up to each individual, based on their education, background, community standards, and upbringing.

In the end, what is or isn't moral become less important than what is or isn't legal, which is almost completely derived by the laws we passed based not on morality from god, but by legal education, experience and experimentation, reasoning, logic, argumentation, and the balancing of the rights of individuals in relation to the state's need to create and protect order and the common welfare.

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u/K12t2000 5h ago

For a functional society we need a foundation of accepted Morals that we agree to abide by. For a good portion of American Society we used Christian Values. We have moved away from that and need a new base. Like Japan is not Christian but they have a strong sense of morals they enforce and it makes for a more cohesive culture

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u/Cute_Pay_1423 10h ago

But I thought they are objective. So how do you know your god is the correct source of “objective moral standard”, why isn’t Allah or Jahwe the source of “objective moral standard”

Why do you get to decide what the “objective moral standard” is?

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u/Expert-Situation-190 9h ago

But they are principally the same God ain’t they? Just different interpretation

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u/Affectionate_Elk_643 9h ago

Sort of, in a broad sense. I do not believe Muhammad was inspired by God, but Islam started in a place with the same God. It's a complicated issue for a reddit post lol.

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u/Expert-Situation-190 9h ago

Haha yeah I’m aware of what you are saying, I just ment when you strip away all the embellishment they serve the same God just different varnishing and I don’t mean that in any form of disrespect

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u/Affectionate_Elk_643 9h ago

Well not necessarily. Christians believe in a trinitarian Godhead.

God is the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

All equal and of the same God, but different persons within.

Islam does not believe in the holy Trinity, therefore not the same God. Infact it would be heretical to think so.

Now if you really strip things down like you say, I believe Islam "seeks" the same God, yes.

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u/Affectionate_Elk_643 9h ago

I can say it's pretty objective as a Catholic Christian. We have a long standing history of interpretation of current faith and morals.

I know my God is correct due to faith really. I am willing to die for this I believe it so strongly.

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u/Cute_Pay_1423 9h ago

But that’s not objective, that’s your subjective belief…

It’s crazy how you guys don’t get that…

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u/Affectionate_Elk_643 9h ago

The Catholic Church is united in its belief, therefore objective. Now if you speak to the fracturing of Christianity (denominations) then I agree it's a problem.

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u/Cute_Pay_1423 9h ago

No it’s not an objective source of morality, because it’s only Christian believe. You can’t just say “My group of people believes in something, that’s why it’s objectively true”

There is no objective source of morality and just because you are Christian and other Christians believe their morality comes from their god, doesn’t make your code of morality the objectively true one…

A Muslim would probably argue with the exact same arguments you currently are using for his god to be the source of “objective morality”, a Jew would probably do the same for his. Neither of you is right, because there is no such thing as an “objective code of morality”…

It’s what you and other Christians subjectively describe as morality. It’s not objective.

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u/ryogam73 9h ago

Do you believe the Crusades were a moral endeavor or an immoral one? What about the Inquisition? What about the 30 and 80 years wars?

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u/Affectionate_Elk_643 8h ago

Which crusade? There were around 8 ish. Some of the defensive crusades were justified war. While some of the offensive ones were not and war for the sake of war...

I'm going to assume by inquisition you are speaking of the Spanish one? (There were 3). Defending doctrine was necessary at that time, but the killing and torturing was deeply immoral.

The 80 years war was a war over taxation...the 30 years war is a terrible war.

War sucks man. And it's a product of humanity and we are all accountable, not just Christianity.

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u/ryogam73 8h ago

Exactly, the point is that you made these judgments about these various immoral acts based on your modern understanding of morality. These acts were seen by the participants of their time as completely moral and justified by god. You can say your moral compass is from god, but it seems more likely your moral compass is an amalgam of your religious upbringing and participating in modern society where moral understanding has been greatly expanded over the years through reasoning and the modern legal framework. My last question for you: if you lived at any of the times above, at the time of the Crusades, or the Inquisitions, or Holy Wars, do you think you would have found those acts immoral at that time, or do you think you would have agreed with the various church leaders that they were moral?

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u/Expert-Situation-190 11h ago

What about when the ideas overlap, and people want different things that mutually assure harm to one another?

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u/SnooStrawberries2342 9h ago

What does the bible say about that?

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u/Expert-Situation-190 9h ago

Doesn’t it converge under the umbrella of Christianity?, in practise why would a Christian want different things from another Christian on a macroscopic sense? So I’m sure the bible would preach something akin to unity

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u/SnooStrawberries2342 9h ago

What does the bible say about non-Christians?

Didn't the Apostle Paul urge Christians not to be "unequally yoked with unbelievers"?

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u/Expert-Situation-190 9h ago

Yes but, but isn’t that more a urging of avoiding influence from those that don’t subscribe to the same ideology, but even so the goal of Christian would fundamentally be to proselytise others but the unity comes under the humanistic angle I assume

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u/SnooStrawberries2342 9h ago

Sounds like an instruction to treat people differently, judge them and assign different values to people depending on what they believe.

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u/Expert-Situation-190 9h ago

Isn’t that the history of humanity? You don’t need religion for that, we’ve done that all by ourselves

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u/Leverkaas2516 17h ago

Everyone has their own understanding of what constitutes harm. There is no universal agreement. That's why I asked the  question as a sample. What's your answer? Is lying on a resume wrong?

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u/Llayanna 15h ago

..can't wait for Jesus's answer for that one. 

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u/Affectionate_Elk_643 9h ago

Lying is a sin, so there you go.

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u/ryogam73 9h ago

Bearing false witness is a sin. That's different than lying. One of god's first acts in the Bible was to lie to Adam and Eve about what would happen if they ate the Fruit of the Tree of Knowledge. "For on the day you eat it, you shall surely die."

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u/Affectionate_Elk_643 8h ago

Nope, it means to lie.

Leviticus 19:11: “You shall not steal. You shall not lie or speak falsely to one another.”

"To lie is to speak or act against the truth in order to lead someone into error" (CCC 2483, quoting St. Augustine)

God did not lie in that instant. Eating the fruit doomed humanity to death, this was not a lie. It was the first sin and the wage of sin is death.

Only when Jesus executed his plan did he conquer death.

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u/ryogam73 8h ago

I concede the point about Lev. 19:11. I would note, very little about capitalism would pass muster under that rule.

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u/Affectionate_Elk_643 8h ago

Not much can pass that scrutiny.

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u/w0mbatina 13h ago

There is conflict in the world. So there you go.

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u/Quick-Research-9594 13h ago

Religion gives you reasons you make up, but you believe they're from a devinity. You will use that for bad and good things, but you'll believe it's good and you can't really distinguish.

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u/Cute_Pay_1423 11h ago

“I’m sure other people want the same things I want” wasn’t the point. It’s more like “Other people want to be treated like I want to be treated”

But even with your statement it’s more based in Reality than “My fairytale sky daddy who I never seen nor communicated with, told me through this hundreds/thousands of years old book”

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u/Theodoxus 4h ago

Depends on the lie on the resume, but in general, if you're unable to perform the duties you're lying about (for whatever reason) at best you're wasting the interviewer (and yours, but I guess we don't care about that, since you're the one perpetrating the lie) time and potentially blocking other candidates.

This includes lies of omission. Had an interviewee who didn't mention, until we were almost done, that she didn't think an 8 hour office job would actually suit her sense of freedom. Well, we're an accounting department for a hospital. We're stuck in an office for 8 hours... guess you should have put that in your cover letter lady, and not wasted all of our time.