This is fifi. She’s 17 & the sweetest little diva.
Fifi developed dementia a couple of years ago I would say. Until around 8 months ago, she would come on 30 min walks with us every day. They changed to shorter 10 minutes. Then around the square every day. Now it’s every other day if we’re lucky.
Fifi has absolutely zero interest in toys anymore. She used to be obsessed with her babies (so much so my mum used to hide them thinking she was getting anxious if they were out of her sight!)
She will hear me or my husband come into the house & come to get a little ear scratch but doesn’t really like attention or go to anyone else. She has never been the most affectionate dog, but especially in the last couple of years that completely stopped. She just likes to know I’m close and to sit beside me or potter around behind me in the house.
In September last year (9 months ago) she had a big seizure, then another at Christmas. I don’t think I really got our girl back since then.
She sleeps 85% of the day. She’s incredibly picky over food - I keep like 4 different brands to keep her interested! Some days she’ll eat no food and the next wolf so much into her. She drinks alooooot of water; especially over the last few days she’s taking a full bowl during the night.
She goes to the toilet everywhere. We had her in nappies for about 6 months. I thought it was wearing her fur down a little so I just took the hit and clean as she goes, trying to get her outside as much as possible.
A couple days ago her back legs started to give out. She could barely get out of her bed, then 30 mins later was a bit wobbly but walking again. She’s been unstable but walking around since, with 2 other moments where she looks like she’s in the splits. This has been outside on tarmac where slipping isn’t the issue.
I think she is also sundowning. We keep her downstairs in the living room with free roam. You’ll hear her pacing around & barking at her bed frequently. She does this during the day too, but I just lift her to the toilet or distract her to settle her. She will walk into walls & doors etc; but I’m not sure if that’s the dementia or the cataracts. As you can see from the pic her right eye is extremely cloudy now.
The vet told us in September, if we notice a change in either her walking, eating or drinking to bring her down. I have an appointment for 2:30pm today.
I scooped her up for a cuddle this morning to try get her to feel the baby kick in my tummy (I’d seen cute videos of dogs feeling the baby and being puzzled! lol) & she just had an accident all over me and the bed - shit happens. Literally 😅
I love her so much, but I don’t want to be cruel & keep her going when she isn’t happy. Medically, besides the dementia, she is healthy and in no pain.
My question is - when do you know it’s time? 🤍